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ahmad:20324Bahz > Hammām > Qatādah > al-Ḥasan > ʿAbdullāh b. ʿUthmān al-Thaqafiyyiʾan a man Aʿwar from Thaqīf

[Machine] It is said that "Ma'roof" refers to something that is praised or considered good. It is said that Zuhayr ibn Uthman reported that the Prophet ﷺ said, "The wedding feast is a right, the second day is 'ma'roof', and the third day is a fame and showoff."  

أحمد:٢٠٣٢٤حَدَّثَنَا بَهْزٌ حَدَّثَنَا هَمَّامٌ عَنْ قَتَادَةَ عَنِ الْحَسَنِ عَنْ عَبْدِ اللهِ بْنِ عُثْمَانَ الثَّقَفِيِّأَنَّ رَجُلًا أَعْوَرَ مِنْ ثَقِيفٍ قَالَ قَتَادَةُ كَانَ

يُقَالُ لَهُ مَعْرُوفٌ أَيْ يُثْنَى عَلَيْهِ خَيْرًا يُقَالُ لَهُ زُهَيْرُ بْنُ عُثْمَانَ أَنَّ النَّبِيَّ ﷺ قَالَ الْوَلِيمَةُ حَقٌّ وَالْيَوْمُ الثَّانِي مَعْرُوفٌ وَالْيَوْمُ الثَّالِثُ سُمْعَةٌ وَرِيَاءٌ  


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ahmad:23152ʿAbd al-Raḥman b. Mahdī > Hammām > Qatādah > al-Ḥasan

that the Messenger of Allah said: 'The wedding feast on the first day is an obligation, on the second day is a custom and on the third day is showing off.” (Using translation from Ibn Mājah 1915)   

أحمد:٢٣١٥٢حَدَّثَنَا عَبْدُ الرَّحْمَنِ بْنُ مَهْدِيٍّ حَدَّثَنَا هَمَّامٌ عَنْ قَتَادَةَ عَنِ الْحَسَنِ عَنْ عَبْدِ اللهِ بْنِ عُثْمَانَ الثَّقَفِيِّ عَنْ رَجُلٍ مِنْ ثَقِيفٍ أَعْوَرَ يُقَالُ لَهُ مَعْرُوفٌ وَأَثْنَى عَلَيْهِ خَيْرًا قَالَ

قَالَ رَسُولُ اللهِ ﷺ الْوَلِيمَةُ حَقٌّ وَالْيَوْمُ الثَّانِي مَعْرُوفٌ وَالْيَوْمُ الثَّالِثُ سُمْعَةٌ وَرِيَاءٌ  

ahmad:20325ʿAbd al-Ṣamad > Hammām > Qatādah > al-Ḥasan

that the Messenger of Allah said: 'The wedding feast on the first day is an obligation, on the second day is a custom and on the third day is showing off.” (Using translation from Ibn Mājah 1915)   

أحمد:٢٠٣٢٥حَدَّثَنَا عَبْدُ الصَّمَدِ حَدَّثَنَا هَمَّامٌ حَدَّثَنَا قَتَادَةُ عَنِ الْحَسَنِ عَنْ عَبْدِ اللهِ بْنِ عُثْمَانَ الثَّقَفِيِّ عَنْ رَجُلٍ أَعْوَرَ مِنْ ثَقِيفٍ قَالَ قَتَادَةُ وَكَانَ يُقَالُ لَهُ مَعْرُوفٌ إِنْ لَمْ يَكُنْ اسْمُهُ زُهَيْرَ بْنَ عُثْمَانَ فَلَا أَدْرِي مَا اسْمُهُ؟

أَنَّ رَسُولَ اللهِ ﷺ قَالَ الْوَلِيمَةُ أَوَّلَ يَوْمٍ حَقٌّ وَالثَّانِي مَعْرُوفٌ وَالْيَوْمَ الثَّالِثَ سُمْعَةٌ وَرِيَاءٌ  

زُهَيْرُ بْنُ عُثْمَانَ الثَّقَفِيُّ

tabarani:5306Muḥammad b. ʿAbdullāh al-Ḥaḍramī > ʿAbd al-Wārith b. ʿAbd al-Ṣamad b. ʿAbd al-Wārith from my father > Hammām b. Yaḥyá > Qatādah

[Machine] It is called ma'ruf, if its name is not Zuhayr ibn 'Uthman, then I do not know what its name is. Indeed, the Messenger of Allah ﷺ said: "The first day of the wedding is a right, the second day is ma'ruf, and the third day is reputation and fame."  

الطبراني:٥٣٠٦حَدَّثَنَا مُحَمَّدُ بْنُ عَبْدِ اللهِ الْحَضْرَمِيُّ ثنا عَبْدُ الْوَارِثِ بْنُ عَبْدِ الصَّمَدِ بْنِ عَبْدِ الْوَارِثِ ثنا أَبِي ثنا هَمَّامُ بْنُ يَحْيَى عَنْ قَتَادَةَ عَنْ عَبْدِ اللهِ بْنِ عُثْمَانَ الثَّقَفِيِّ عَنْ رَجُلٍ أَعْوَرَ مِنْ ثَقِيفٍ قَالَ قَتَادَةُ وَكَانَ

يُقَالُ لَهُ مَعْرُوفٌ إِنْ لَمْ يَكُنِ اسْمُهُ زُهَيْرُ بْنُ عُثْمَانَ فَلَا أَدْرِي مَا اسْمُهٌ إِنَّ رَسُولَ اللهِ ﷺ قَالَ «الْوَلِيمَةُ أَوَّلُ يَوْمٍ حَقٌّ وَالثَّانِي مَعْرُوفٌ وَالثَّالِثُ سُمْعَةٌ وَرِيَاءٌ»