BAYHAQI 14624:
from ʿAbdullāh b. ʿUbayd b. ʿUmayr —
[Machine] A group of the companions of the Messenger of Allah, ﷺ , entered upon Jabir ibn Abdullah. So he brought them bread and date spread and said, "Eat, for I have heard the Messenger of Allah, ﷺ , saying, 'The best food is date spread. It is a destruction for a man if his fellow brothers come to his house and he belittles what is in his home by not offering it to them, and it is a destruction for a people if they belittle what is offered to them.'"
البيهقي ١٤٦٢٤:
عن عبد الله بن عبيد بن عمير —
دَخَلَ نَفَرٌ مِنْ أَصْحَابِ رَسُولِ اللهِ ﷺ عَلَى جَابِرِ بْنِ عَبْدِ اللهِ فَقَرَّبَ إِلَيْهِمْ خُبْزًا وَخَلًّا فَقَالَ كُلُوا فَإِنِّي سَمِعْتُ رَسُولَ اللهِ ﷺ يَقُولُ نِعْمَ الْإِدَامُ الْخَلُّ إِنَّهُ هَلَاكٌ بِالرَّجُلِ أَنْ يَدْخُلَ عَلَيْهِ النَّفَرُ مِنْ إِخْوَانِهِ فَيَحْتَقِرَ مَا فِي بَيْتِهِ أَنْ يُقَدِّمَهُ إِلَيْهِمْ وَهَلَاكٌ بِالْقَوْمِ أَنْ يَحْتَقِرُوا مَا قُدِّمَ إِلَيْهِمْ
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