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[Machine] A man migrated to the Messenger of Allah ﷺ from Yemen. The Messenger of Allah ﷺ said to him, "You migrated from polytheism, but is your father in Yemen?" He replied, "Yes." He ﷺ said, "Did you seek their permission?" He replied, "No." The Messenger of Allah ﷺ then said, "Return to your parents and seek their permission. If they grant it, then be dutiful to them, and if they do not, then treat them kindly."  

أحمد:١١٧٢١ – وَبِهَذَا الْإِسْنَادِ قَالَ

هَاجَرَ رَجُلٌ إِلَى رَسُولِ اللهِ ﷺ مِنَ الْيَمَنِ فَقَالَ لَهُ رَسُولُ اللهِ ﷺ هَجَرْتَ الشِّرْكَ وَلَكِنَّهُ الْجِهَادُ هَلْ بِالْيَمَنِ أَبَوَاكَ؟ قَالَ نَعَمْ قَالَ أَذِنَا لَكَ؟ قَالَ لَا فَقَالَلَهُ رَسُولُ اللهِ ﷺ ارْجِعْ إِلَى أَبَوَيْكَ فَاسْتَأْذِنْهُمَا فَإِنْ فَعَلَا وَإِلَّا فَبِرَّهُمَا  

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Collected by Abū Dāwūd, Ḥākim, Ibn Ḥibbān, Bayhaqī, Suyūṭī
abudawud:2530 – Saʿīd b. Manṣūr > ʿAbdullāh b. Wahb > ʿAmr b. al-Ḥārith > Darrāj Abū al-Samḥ > Abū al-Haytham > Abū Saʿīd al-Khudrī

A man emigrated to the Messenger of Allah ﷺ from the Yemen. He asked (him): Have you anyone (of your relatives) in the Yemen? He replied: My parents. He asked: Did they permit you? He replied: No. He said: Go back to them and ask for their permission. If they permit you, then fight (in the path of Allah), otherwise be devoted to them.  

أبو داود:٢٥٣٠ – حَدَّثَنَا سَعِيدُ بْنُ مَنْصُورٍ حَدَّثَنَا عَبْدُ اللَّهِ بْنُ وَهْبٍ أَخْبَرَنِي عَمْرُو بْنُ الْحَارِثِ أَنَّ دَرَّاجًا أَبَا السَّمْحِ حَدَّثَهُ عَنْ أَبِي الْهَيْثَمِ عَنْ أَبِي سَعِيدٍ الْخُدْرِيِّ

أَنَّ رَجُلاً هَاجَرَ إِلَى رَسُولِ اللَّهِ ﷺ مِنَ الْيَمَنِ فَقَالَ هَلْ لَكَ أَحَدٌ بِالْيَمَنِ قَالَ أَبَوَاىَ قَالَ أَذِنَا لَكَ قَالَ لاَ قَالَ ارْجِعْ إِلَيْهِمَا فَاسْتَأْذِنْهُمَا فَإِنْ أَذِنَا لَكَ فَجَاهِدْ وَإِلاَّ فَبِرَّهُمَا  

hakim:2501 – Abū al-ʿAbbās Muḥammad b. Yaʿqūb > Muḥammad b. ʿAbdullāh b. ʿAbd al-Ḥakam > Ibn Wahb > ʿAmr b. al-Ḥārith > Darrāj Abū al-Samḥ > Abū al-Haytham > Abū Saʿīd al-Khudrī

A man emigrated to the Messenger of Allah ﷺ from the Yemen. He asked (him): Have you anyone (of your relatives) in the Yemen? He replied: My parents. He asked: Did they permit you? He replied: No. He said: Go back to them and ask for their permission. If they permit you, then fight (in the path of Allah), otherwise be devoted to them. (Using translation from Abū Dāʾūd 2530)   

الحاكم:٢٥٠١ – حَدَّثَنَا أَبُو الْعَبَّاسِ مُحَمَّدُ بْنُ يَعْقُوبَ أَنْبَأَ مُحَمَّدُ بْنُ عَبْدِ اللَّهِ بْنِ عَبْدِ الْحَكَمِ أَنْبَأَ ابْنُ وَهْبٍ أَخْبَرَنِي عَمْرُو بْنُ الْحَارِثِ عَنْ دَرَّاجٍ أَبِي السَّمْحِ عَنْ أَبِي الْهَيْثَمِ عَنْ أَبِي سَعِيدٍ الْخُدْرِيِّ

أَنَّ رَجُلًا هَاجَرَ إِلَى رَسُولِ اللَّهِ ﷺ مِنَ الْيَمَنِ فَقَالَ يَا رَسُولَ اللَّهِ إِنِّي هَاجَرْتُ فَقَالَ لَهُ رَسُولُ اللَّهِ ﷺ «قَدْ هَجَرْتَ مِنَ الشِّرْكِ وَلَكِنَّهُ الْجِهَادُ هَلْ لَكَ أَحَدٌ بِالْيَمَنِ؟» قَالَ أَبَوَايَ قَالَ «أَذِنَا لَكَ؟» قَالَ لَا قَالَ «فَارْجِعْ فَاسْتَأْذِنْهُمَا فَإِنْ أَذِنَا لَكَ فَجَاهِدْ وَإِلَّا فَبِرَّهُمَا»  

هَذَا حَدِيثٌ صَحِيحُ الْإِسْنَادِ وَلَمْ يُخَرِّجَاهُ بِهَذِهِ السِّيَاقَةِ «إِنَّمَا اتَّفَقَا عَلَى حَدِيثِ عَبْدِ اللَّهِ بْنِ عَمْرٍو فَفِيهِمَا فَجَاهِدْ» دراج واه

ذِكْرُ الْبَيَانِ بِأَنَّ بِرَّ الْوَالِدَيْنِ أَفْضَلُ مِنْ جِهَادِ التَّطَوُّعِ

ibnhibban:422 – ʿUmar b. Muḥammad al-Hamadhānī > Abū al-Ṭāhir b. al-Sarḥ > Ibn Wahb > ʿAmr b. al-Ḥārith > Darrāj > Abū al-Haytham > Abū Saʿīd al-Khudrī

A man emigrated to the Messenger of Allah ﷺ from the Yemen. He asked (him): Have you anyone (of your relatives) in the Yemen? He replied: My parents. He asked: Did they permit you? He replied: No. He said: Go back to them and ask for their permission. If they permit you, then fight (in the path of Allah), otherwise be devoted to them. (Using translation from Abū Dāʾūd 2530)   

ابن حبّان:٤٢٢ – أَخْبَرَنَا عُمَرُ بْنُ مُحَمَّدٍ الْهَمَذَانِيُّ حَدَّثَنَا أَبُو الطَّاهِرِ بْنُ السَّرْحِ حَدَّثَنَا ابْنُ وَهْبٍ أَخْبَرَنَا عَمْرُو بْنُ الْحَارِثِ عَنْ دَرَّاجٍ عَنْ أَبِي الْهَيْثَمِ عَنْ أَبِي سَعِيدٍ الْخُدْرِيِّ

أَنَّ رَجُلًا هَاجَرَ إِلَى رَسُولِ اللَّهِ ﷺ مِنَ الْيَمَنِ فقَالَ يَا رَسُولَ اللَّهِ إِنِّي هَاجَرْتُ؟ فقَالَ رَسُولُ اللَّهِ ﷺ «قَدْ هَجَّرْتَ الشِّرْكَ وَلَكِنَّهُ الْجِهَادُ؟ هَلْ لَكَ أَحَدٌ بِالْيَمَنِ»؟ قَالَ أَبَوَايَ قَالَ «أَذِنَا لَكَ؟ » قَالَ لَا قَالَ «ارْجِعْ فَاسْتَأْذِنْهُمَا فَإِنْ أَذِنَا لَكَ فَجَاهِدْ وَإِلَّا فَبِرَّهُمَا»  

bayhaqi:17831 – Abū ʿAbdullāh al-Ḥāfiẓ And ʾAbū Bakr Aḥmad b. al-Ḥasan al-Qāḍī > Abū al-ʿAbbās Muḥammad b. Yaʿqūb > Muḥammad b. ʿAbdullāh b. ʿAbd al-Ḥakam > Ibn Wahb > ʿAmr b. al-Ḥārith > Darrāj Abū al-Samḥ > Abū al-Haytham > Abū Saʿīd al-Khudrī

A man emigrated to the Messenger of Allah ﷺ from the Yemen. He asked (him): Have you anyone (of your relatives) in the Yemen? He replied: My parents. He asked: Did they permit you? He replied: No. He said: Go back to them and ask for their permission. If they permit you, then fight (in the path of Allah), otherwise be devoted to them. (Using translation from Abū Dāʾūd 2530)   

البيهقي:١٧٨٣١ – أَخْبَرَنَا أَبُو عَبْدِ اللهِ الْحَافِظُ وَأَبُو بَكْرٍ أَحْمَدُ بْنُ الْحَسَنِ الْقَاضِي قَالَا ثنا أَبُو الْعَبَّاسِ مُحَمَّدُ بْنُ يَعْقُوبَ أنبأ مُحَمَّدُ بْنُ عَبْدِ اللهِ بْنِ عَبْدِ الْحَكَمِ أنبأ ابْنُ وَهْبٍ أَخْبَرَنِي عَمْرُو بْنُ الْحَارِثِ عَنْ دَرَّاجٍ أَبِي السَّمْحِ عَنْ أَبِي الْهَيْثَمِ عَنْ أَبِي سَعِيدٍ الْخُدْرِيِّ ؓ

أَنَّ رَجُلًا هَاجَرَ إِلَى رَسُولِ اللهِ ﷺ مِنَ الْيَمَنِ فَقَالَ يَا رَسُولَ اللهِ إِنِّي هَاجَرْتُ فَقَالَ رَسُولُ اللهِ ﷺ قَدْ هَجَرْتَ الشِّرْكَ وَلَكِنَّهُ الْجِهَادُ هَلْ لَكَ أَحَدٌ بِالْيَمَنِ؟ قَالَ أَبَوَايَ قَالَ أَذِنَا لَكَ؟ قَالَ لَا قَالَ فَارْجِعْ فَاسْتَأْذِنْهُمَا فَإِنْ أَذِنَا لَكَ فَجَاهِدْ وَإِلَّا فَبِرَّهُمَا  

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السيوطي:١٦٣٤١a –

"قَدْ هَجرْت الشِّرْكَ، وَلَكِنَّهُ الْجِهادُ هَل لَكَ أحَدٌ بالْيَمَن؟ قَال: أَبَوَينِ، قَال: أَذِنَا لَكَ؟ قَال: لَا، قَال: ارْجعْ فَاسْتَأذنْهمَا، فَإنْ أَذِنَا لَكَ فَجَاهدْ، وَإلَّا فَبِرَّهُمَا".  

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