AHMAD-ZUHD 274:
from Hishām b. ʿUrwah from his father —
[Machine] It is written in wisdom, "Build so that your words are kind and your face is simple, so you may be more beloved to people than someone who gives them gifts." It is also written in wisdom or in the Torah, "Gentleness is the foundation of wisdom." And it is written in the Torah, "As you show mercy, you will be shown mercy, and as you sow, you will reap." And it is written in wisdom, "Love your friend and the friend of your father."
الزهد لأحمد ٢٧٤:
عن هشام بن عروه عن أبيه —
مَكْتُوبٌ فِي الْحِكْمَةِ بُنَيَّ لِتَكُنْ كَلِمَتُكَ طَيِّبَةً وَلْيَكُنْ وَجْهُكَ بَسِيطًا تَكُنْ أَحَبَّ إِلَى النَّاسِ مِمَّنْ يُعْطِيهِمُ الْعَطَاءَ وَقَالَ مَكْتُوبٌ فِي الْحِكْمَةِ أَوْ فِي التَّوْرَاةِ الرِّفْقُ رَأْسُ الْحِكْمَةِ وَقَالَ مَكْتُوبٌ فِي التَّوْرَاةِ كَمَا تَرْحَمُونَ تُرْحَمُونَ وَكَمَا تَزْرَعُونَ تَحْصُدُونَ وَقَالَ مَكْتُوبٌ فِي الْحِكْمَةِ أَحِبَّ خَلِيلَكَ وَخَلِيلَ أَبِيكَ
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