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tabarani:17760Isḥāq b. Ibrāhīm > ʿAbd al-Razzāq > Maʿmar > ʿAmr b. Dīnār > ʿAṭāʾ > ʿĀʾish b. Anas

[Machine] Ali ibn Abi Talib asked al-Miqdad to ask the Messenger of Allah about a man who plays with his wife and talks to her until he ejaculates. If it were not for the fact that I feel shy towards him and that his daughter is under me, I would have asked him myself. al-Miqdad asked him, and the Messenger of Allah said, "He should wash his private part, then perform ablution, and then sprinkle his genitals."  

الطبراني:١٧٧٦٠حَدَّثَنَا إِسْحَاقُ بْنُ إِبْرَاهِيمَ عَنْ عَبْدِ الرَّزَّاقِ عَنْ مَعْمَرٍ عَنْ عَمْرِو بْنِ دِينَارٍ عَنْ عَطَاءٍ عَنْ عَائِشِ بْنِ أَنَسٍ قَالَ قَالَ

عَلِيُّ بْنُ أَبِي طَالِبٍ لِلْمِقْدَادِ سَلْ لِي رَسُولَ اللهِ ﷺ عَنْ رَجُلٍ يُلَاعِبُ امْرَأَتَهُ ويُكَلِّمُهَا فَيُمْذِي فَلَوْلَا أَنِّي أَسْتَحِيِي مِنْهُ وَأَنَّ ابْنَتَهُ تَحْتِي لَسَأَلْتُهُ فَسَأَلَهُ الْمِقْدَادُ فَقَالَ رَسُولُ اللهِ ﷺ «لِيَغْسِلْ ذَكَرَهُ ثُمَّ لِيَتَوَضَّأْ ثُمَّ لِيَنْضَحْ فَرْجَهُ»  


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suyuti:4-744bʿAli > Llmiqdād Sal Liá Rasūl Allāh
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السيوطي:٤-٧٤٤b

"عَنْ عَلِىٍّ أَنَّهُ قَالَ للمِقْدَادِ: سَلْ لِى رَسُولَ الله ﷺ عَنِ الرَّجُلِ يُلاَعِبُ امْرَأَتَهُ وَيُكلّمُهَا فَيَكُونُ مِنْهُ المَذىُ؛ فَإِنَّهُ لَوْلاَ أَنَّ ابْنَتَهُ تَحْتِى لَسَأَلتهُ، فَسَأَلَهُ المِقْدَادُ فَقَالَ: يَغْسِلُ ذَكَرَهُ وَأنثيَيْهِ ثُمَّ ليَنْضَحْ فِى فَرْجِهِ".  

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