[Machine] Ali ibn Abi Talib asked al-Miqdad to ask the Messenger of Allah about a man who plays with his wife and talks to her until he ejaculates. If it were not for the fact that I feel shy towards him and that his daughter is under me, I would have asked him myself. al-Miqdad asked him, and the Messenger of Allah said, "He should wash his private part, then perform ablution, and then sprinkle his genitals."  

عَلِيُّ بْنُ أَبِي طَالِبٍ لِلْمِقْدَادِ سَلْ لِي رَسُولَ اللهِ ﷺ عَنْ رَجُلٍ يُلَاعِبُ امْرَأَتَهُ ويُكَلِّمُهَا فَيُمْذِي فَلَوْلَا أَنِّي أَسْتَحِيِي مِنْهُ وَأَنَّ ابْنَتَهُ تَحْتِي لَسَأَلْتُهُ فَسَأَلَهُ الْمِقْدَادُ فَقَالَ رَسُولُ اللهِ ﷺ «لِيَغْسِلْ ذَكَرَهُ ثُمَّ لِيَتَوَضَّأْ ثُمَّ لِيَنْضَحْ فَرْجَهُ»  

"عَنْ عَلِىٍّ قَالَ: قُلْتُ لِلْمِقْدَادِ، سَلْ رَسُولَ الله ﷺ فَإِنِّى لَوْلَا أَنَّى تَحْتِى ابْنَتُهُ سَأَلْتُهُ عَنْ أَحَدِنَا إِذَا تَقَرَّبَ مِنَ امْرَأَتِهِ فَأَمْذَى وَلَمْ يَمْلِكْ ذَلِكَ وَلَمْ يَمَسَّهَا، فَسَأَلَ الْمِقْدَادُ رَسُولَ الله ﷺ فَقَالَ رَسُولُ الله ﷺ : إِذَا أَمْذَى ولَمْ يَمَسَّهَا فَليَغْسلْ ذَكَرَهُ وَأُنْثَيَيْهِ، ثُمَّ يَتَوَضَّأ وَلْيُصَلِّ".