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nasai-kubra:234 – Sūwayd b. Naṣr > ʿAbdullāh > Saʿīd b. Yazīd > ʿAbd al-Raḥman b. Hurmuz al-Aʿraj > Nāʿim a freed slave of Um Salamah > Um Salamah Suʾilat Ataghtasil al-Marʾah Maʿ al-a man

[Machine] Yes, "If it was a small container, you would see me and the Messenger of Allah ﷺ washing ourselves from a single vessel, pouring water onto our hands to cleanse them, and then pouring water onto ourselves." Al-A'raj said: "You don't mention the private parts and you don't care about them."  

الكبرى للنسائي:٢٣٤ – أَخْبَرَنَا سُوَيْدُ بْنُ نَصْرٍ قَالَ أَخْبَرَنَا عَبْدُ اللهِ عَنْ سَعِيدِ بْنِ يَزِيدَ قَالَ سَمِعْتُ عَبْدَ الرَّحْمَنِ بْنَ هُرْمُزَ الْأَعْرَجَ يَقُولُ حَدَّثَنِي نَاعِمٌ مَوْلَى أُمِّ سَلَمَةَ أَنَّ أُمَّ سَلَمَةَ سُئِلَتْ أَتَغْتَسِلُ الْمَرْأَةَ مَعَ الرَّجُلِ؟ قَالَتْ

نَعَمْ «إِذَا كَانَتْ كَيِّسَةً رَأَيْتُنِي وَرَسُولُ اللهِ ﷺ نَغْتَسِلُ مِنْ مِرْكَنٍ وَاحِدٍ نُفِيضُ عَلَى أَيْدِينَا حَتَّى نُنَقِّيهَا ثُمَّ نُفِيضُ عَلَيْنَا الْمَاءَ» قَالَ الْأَعْرَجُ لَا تَذْكُرُ فَرْجًا وَلَا تُبَالِيهِ  

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Collected by Nasāʾī, Aḥmad
nasai:237 – Sūwayd b. Naṣr > ʿAbdullāh > Saʿīd b. Yazīd > ʿAbd al-Raḥman b. Hurmuz al-Aʿraj > Nāʿim a freed slave of Um Salamah > Um Salamah Suʾilat Ataghtasil al-Marʾah Maʿ al-a man

"Na'im the freed slave of Umm Salamah narrated to me that Umm Salamah was asked: 'Can a woman perform Ghusl with a man?' She said: 'Yes, if she is well-mannered.[1] I remember the Messenger of Allah ﷺ and I performing Ghusl from a single wash tub. We would pour water on our hands until they were clean then pour water over them.'" Al-A'raj said: "Not mentioning the private area not paying attention to it." [1] Kaiysah:" Well-mannered when using the water with the man" (An-Nihayah) And the comments by Al-A'raj after the narration refer to its meaning.  

النسائي:٢٣٧ – أَخْبَرَنَا سُوَيْدُ بْنُ نَصْرٍ قَالَ حَدَّثَنَا عَبْدُ اللَّهِ عَنْ سَعِيدِ بْنِ يَزِيدَ قَالَ سَمِعْتُ عَبْدَ الرَّحْمَنِ بْنَ هُرْمُزَ الأَعْرَجَ يَقُولُ

حَدَّثَنِي نَاعِمٌ مَوْلَى أُمِّ سَلَمَةَ ؓ أَنَّ أُمَّ سَلَمَةَ سُئِلَتْ أَتَغْتَسِلُ الْمَرْأَةُ مَعَ الرَّجُلِ قَالَتْ نَعَمْ إِذَا كَانَتْ كَيِّسَةً رَأَيْتُنِي وَرَسُولَ اللَّهِ ﷺ نَغْتَسِلُ مِنْ مِرْكَنٍ وَاحِدٍ نُفِيضُ عَلَى أَيْدِينَا حَتَّى نُنْقِيَهُمَا ثُمَّ نُفِيضَ عَلَيْهَا الْمَاءَ قَالَ الأَعْرَجُ لاَ تَذْكُرُ فَرْجًا وَلاَ تَبَالَهُ  

ahmad:26749 – ʿAlī b. Isḥāq > ʿAbdullāh / Ibn Mubārak > Saʿīd b. Yazīd / Abū Shujāʿ > ʿAbd al-Raḥman b. Hurmuz al-Aʿraj > Nāʿim a freed slave of Um Salamah > Um Salamah Suʾilat Ataghtasil al-Marʾah Maʿ al-a man

"Na'im the freed slave of Umm Salamah narrated to me that Umm Salamah was asked: 'Can a woman perform Ghusl with a man?' She said: 'Yes, if she is well-mannered.[1] I remember the Messenger of Allah ﷺ and I performing Ghusl from a single wash tub. We would pour water on our hands until they were clean then pour water over them.'" Al-A'raj said: "Not mentioning the private area not paying attention to it." [1] Kaiysah:" Well-mannered when using the water with the man" (An-Nihayah) And the comments by Al-A'raj after the narration refer to its meaning. (Using translation from Nasāʾī 237)   

أحمد:٢٦٧٤٩ – حَدَّثَنَا عَلِيُّ بْنُ إِسْحَاقَ قَالَ حَدَّثَنَا عَبْدُ اللهِ يَعْنِي ابْنَ مُبَارَكٍ قَالَ أَخْبَرَنَا سَعِيدُ بْنُ يَزِيدَ وَهُوَ أَبُو شُجَاعٍ قَالَ سَمِعْتُ عَبْدَ الرَّحْمَنِ بْنَ هُرْمُزَ الْأَعْرَجَ يَقُولُ حَدَّثَنِي نَاعِمٌ مَوْلَى أُمِّ سَلَمَةَ

أَنَّ أُمَّ سَلَمَةَ سُئِلَتْ أَتَغْتَسِلُ الْمَرْأَةُ مَعَ الرَّجُلِ؟ فَقَالَتْ نَعَمْ إِذَا كَانَتْ كَيِّسَةً رَأَيْتُنِي وَرَسُولَ اللهِ ﷺ نَغْتَسِلُ مِنْ مِرْكَنٍ وَاحِدٍ نُفِيضُ عَلَى أَيْدِينَا حَتَّى نُنْقِيَهَا ثُمَّ نُفِيضُ عَلَيْنَا الْمَاءَ