The Apostle of Allah ﷺ said: When a man has sexual intercourse, bathing becomes obligatory (both for the male and the female). In the hadith of Matar the words are: Even if there is no orgasm. Zuhair has narrated it with a minor alteration of words.
أَنَّ نَبِيَّ اللَّهِ ﷺ قَالَ إِذَا جَلَسَ بَيْنَ شُعَبِهَا الأَرْبَعِ ثُمَّ جَهَدَهَا فَقَدْ وَجَبَ عَلَيْهِ الْغُسْلُ وَفِي حَدِيثِ مَطَرٍ وَإِنْ لَمْ يُنْزِلْ قَالَ زُهَيْرٌ مِنْ بَيْنِهِمْ بَيْنَ أَشْعُبِهَا الأَرْبَعِ