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bukhari:4640ʿAbdullāh > Sulaymān b. ʿAbd al-Raḥman And Mūsá b. Hārūn > al-Walīd b. Muslim > ʿAbdullāh b. al-ʿAlāʾ b. Zabr > Busr b. ʿUbaydullāh > Abū Idrīs al-Khawlānī > Abū al-Dardāʾ

There was a dispute between Abu Bakr and ʿUmar, and Abu Bakr made ʿUmar angry. So ʿUmar left angrily. Abu Bakr followed him, requesting him to ask forgiveness (of Allah) for him, but ʿUmar refused to do so and closed his door in Abu Bakr's face. So Abu Bakr went to Messenger of Allah ﷺ while we were with him. Messenger of Allah ﷺ said, "This friend of yours must have quarrelled (with somebody)." In the meantime ʿUmar repented and felt sorry for what he had done, so he came, greeted (those who were present) and sat with the Prophet ﷺ and related the story to him. Messenger of Allah ﷺ became angry and Abu Bakr started saying, "O Messenger of Allah ﷺ! By Allah, I was more at fault (than ʿUmar)." Allah's Apostle said, "Are you (people) leaving for me my companion? (Abu Bakr), Are you (people) leaving for me my companion? When I said, 'O people I am sent to you all as the Messenger of Allah,' you said, 'You tell a lie.' while Abu Bakr said, 'You have spoken the truth ."  

البخاري:٤٦٤٠حَدَّثَنَا عَبْدُ اللَّهِ حَدَّثَنَا سُلَيْمَانُ بْنُ عَبْدِ الرَّحْمَنِ وَمُوسَى بْنُ هَارُونَ قَالاَ حَدَّثَنَا الْوَلِيدُ بْنُ مُسْلِمٍ حَدَّثَنَا عَبْدُ اللَّهِ بْنُ الْعَلاَءِ بْنِ زَبْرٍ قَالَ حَدَّثَنِي بُسْرُ بْنُ عُبَيْدِ اللَّهِ قَالَ حَدَّثَنِي أَبُو إِدْرِيسَ الْخَوْلاَنِيُّ قَالَ سَمِعْتُ أَبَا الدَّرْدَاءِ يَقُولُ

كَانَتْ بَيْنَ أَبِي بَكْرٍ وَعُمَرَ مُحَاوَرَةٌ فَأَغْضَبَ أَبُو بَكْرٍ عُمَرَ فَانْصَرَفَ عَنْهُ عُمَرُ مُغْضَبًا فَاتَّبَعَهُ أَبُو بَكْرٍ يَسْأَلُهُ أَنْ يَسْتَغْفِرَ لَهُ فَلَمْ يَفْعَلْ حَتَّى أَغْلَقَ بَابَهُ فِي وَجْهِهِ فَأَقْبَلَ أَبُو بَكْرٍ إِلَى رَسُولِ اللَّهِ ﷺ فَقَالَ أَبُو الدَّرْدَاءِ وَنَحْنُ عِنْدَهُ فَقَالَ رَسُولُ اللَّهِ ﷺ أَمَّا صَاحِبُكُمْ هَذَا فَقَدْ غَامَرَ قَالَ وَنَدِمَ عُمَرُ عَلَى مَا كَانَ مِنْهُ فَأَقْبَلَ حَتَّى سَلَّمَ وَجَلَسَ إِلَى النَّبِيِّ ﷺ وَقَصَّ عَلَى رَسُولِ اللَّهِ ﷺ الْخَبَرَ قَالَ أَبُو الدَّرْدَاءِ وَغَضِبَ رَسُولُ اللَّهِ ﷺ وَجَعَلَ أَبُو بَكْرٍ يَقُولُ وَاللَّهِ يَا رَسُولَ اللَّهِ لأَنَا كُنْتُ أَظْلَمَ فَقَالَ رَسُولُ اللَّهِ ﷺ هَلْ أَنْتُمْ تَارِكُو لِي صَاحِبِي هَلْ أَنْتُمْ تَارِكُو لِي صَاحِبِي إِنِّي قُلْتُ يَا أَيُّهَا النَّاسُ إِنِّي رَسُولُ اللَّهِ إِلَيْكُمْ جَمِيعًا فَقُلْتُمْ كَذَبْتَ وَقَالَ أَبُو بَكْرٍ صَدَقْتَ قَالَ أَبُو عَبْد اللَّهِ غَامَرَ سَبَقَ بِالْخَيْر  


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bayhaqi:21095Abū al-Ḥasan ʿAlī b. Aḥmad b. ʿAbdān > Aḥmad b. ʿUbayd al-Ṣaffār > al-Ḥasan b. ʿAlī al-Maʿmarī > Hishām b. ʿAmmār > Ṣadaqah b. Khālid > Zayd b. Wāqid > Busr b. ʿUbaydullāh > ʿĀʾidh Allāh Abū Idrīs al-Khawlānī > Abū al-Dardāʾ > Kunt Jālis ʿInd

While I was sitting with the Prophet, Abu Bakr came, lifting up one corner of his garment uncovering his knee. The Prophet ﷺ said, "Your companion has had a quarrel." Abu Bakr greeted (the Prophet ﷺ ) and said, "O Messenger of Allah ﷺ! There was something (i.e. quarrel) between me and the Son of Al-Khattab. I talked to him harshly and then regretted that, and requested him to forgive me, but he refused. This is why I have come to you." The Prophet ﷺ said thrice, "O Abu Bakr! May Allah forgive you." In the meanwhile, ʿUmar regretted (his refusal of Abu Bakr's excuse) and went to Abu Bakr's house and asked if Abu Bakr was there. They replied in the negative. So he came to the Prophet ﷺ and greeted him, but signs of displeasure appeared on the face of the Prophet ﷺ till Abu Bakr pitied (ʿUmar), so he knelt and said twice, "O Messenger of Allah ﷺ! By Allah! I was more unjust to him (than he to me)." The Prophet ﷺ said, "Allah sent me (as a Prophet) to you (people) but you said (to me), 'You are telling a lie,' while Abu Bakr said, 'He has said the truth,' and consoled me with himself and his money." He then said twice, "Won't you then give up harming my companion?" After that nobody harmed Abu Bakr. (Using translation from Bukhārī 3661)   

البيهقي:٢١٠٩٥أَخْبَرَنَا أَبُو الْحَسَنِ عَلِيُّ بْنُ أَحْمَدَ بْنِ عَبْدَانَ أنبأ أَحْمَدُ بْنُ عُبَيْدٍ الصَّفَّارُ ثنا الْحَسَنُ بْنُ عَلِيٍّ الْمَعْمَرِيُّ ثنا هِشَامُ بْنُ عَمَّارٍ ثنا صَدَقَةُ بْنُ خَالِدٍ ثنا زَيْدُ بْنُ وَاقِدٍ عَنْ بُسْرِ بْنِ عُبَيْدِ اللهِ عَنْ عَائِذِ اللهِ أَبِي إِدْرِيسَ الْخَوْلَانِيِّ عَنْ أَبِي الدَّرْدَاءِ قَالَ

كُنْتُ جَالِسًا عِنْدَ النَّبِيِّ ﷺ إِذْ أَقْبَلِ أَبُو بَكْرٍ ؓ آخِذًا بِطَرَفِ ثَوْبِهِ حَتَّى أَبْدَى عَنْ رُكْبَتَيْهِ فَقَالَ أَمَّا صَاحِبُكُمْ هَذَا فَقَدْ غَامَرَ فَسَلَّمَ وَقَالَ إِنَّهُ كَانَ بَيْنِي وَبَيْنَ عُمَرَ بْنِ الْخَطَّابِ شَيْءٌ فَأَسْرَعْتُ إِلَيْهِ ثُمَّ ذَهَبَ فَسَأَلْتُهُ أَنْ يَغْفِرَ لِي فَأَبَى عَلَيَّ وَتَحَرَّزَ مِنِّي بِدَارِهِ فَأَقْبَلْتُ إِلَيْكَ فَقَالَ يَغْفِرُ اللهُ لَكَ يَا أَبَا بَكْرٍ ثَلَاثًا ثُمَّ إِنَّ عُمَرَ ؓ نَدِمَ فَأَتَى مَنْزِلَ أَبِي بَكْرٍ ؓ فَسَأَلَ أَثَمَّ أَبُو بَكْرٍ؟ فَقَالُوا لَا فَأَقْبَلَ إِلَى النَّبِيِّ ﷺ فَجَعَلَ وَجْهُ النَّبِيِّ ﷺ يَتَمَعَّرُ حَتَّى أَشْفَقَ أَبُو بَكْرٍ فَجَثَا عَلَى رُكْبَتَيْهِ فَقَالَ يَا رَسُولَ اللهِ أَنَا وَاللهِ كُنْتُ أَظْلَمَ مَرَّتَيْنِ فَقَالَ رَسُولُ اللهِ ﷺ يَا أَيُّهَا النَّاسُ إِنَّ اللهَ سُبْحَانَهُ وَتَعَالَى بَعَثَنِي إِلَيْكُمْ فَقُلْتُمْ كَذَبْتَ وَقَالَ أَبُو بَكْرٍ صَدَقْتَ وَوَاسَانِي بِنَفْسِهِ وَمَالِهِ فَهَلْ أَنْتُمْ تَارِكُونَ لِي صَاحِبِي؟ قَالَهَا مَرَّتَيْنِ فَمَا أُوذِيَ بَعْدَهَا  

رَوَاهُ الْبُخَارِيُّ فِي الصَّحِيحِ عَنْ هِشَامِ بْنِ عَمَّارٍ