108 Yahya related to me from Malik that he had heard that the Messenger of Allah ﷺ visited Umm Salama while she was in mourning for Abu Salama and she had put aloes on her eyes. He said, "What is this, Umm Salama?" She said, "It is only aloes, Messenger of Allah." He said, "Put it on at night and wipe it off in the daytime." Malik said, "The mourning of a young girl who has not yet had a menstrual period takes the same form as the mourning of one who has had a period. She avoids what a mature woman avoids if her husband dies." Malik said, "A slave-girl mourns her husband when he dies for two months and five nights like her idda.'' Malik said, "An umm walad does not have to mourn when her master dies, and a slave-girl does not have to mourn when her master dies. Mourning is for those with husbands."  

أَنَّ رَسُولَ اللَّهِ ﷺ دَخَلَ عَلَى أُمِّ سَلَمَةَ وَهِيَ حَادٌّ عَلَى أَبِي سَلَمَةَ وَقَدْ جَعَلَتْ عَلَى عَيْنَيْهَا صَبِرًا فَقَالَ مَا هَذَا يَا أُمَّ سَلَمَةَ فَقَالَتْ إِنَّمَا هُوَ صَبِرٌ يَا رَسُولَ اللَّهِ قَالَ اجْعَلِيهِ فِي اللَّيْلِ وَامْسَحِيهِ بِالنَّهَارِ  

[Machine] The Prophet entered upon me when Abu Salama passed away, and I had placed a special cloth over my eyes as a sign of grief. He asked, "What is this, O Umm Salama?" I said, "It is a sign of grief, O Messenger of Allah, with no fragrance." He said, "Indeed, it darkens the face. So, keep it at night and remove it during the day."  

دَخَلَ عَلَيَّ النَّبِيُّ ﷺ حِينَ تُوُفِّيَ أَبُو سَلَمَةَ وَقَدْ جَعَلْتُ عَلَى عَيْنِي صَبْرًا فَقَالَ «مَا هَذَا يَا أُمَّ سَلَمَةَ؟» فَقُلْتُ إِنَّمَا هُوَ صَبْرٌ يَا رَسُولَ اللهِ لَيْسَ فِيهِ طِيبٌ فَقَالَ «إِنَّهُ يُشَبِّبُ الْوَجْهَ فَاجْعَلِيهِ بِاللَّيْلِ وَانْزِعِيهِ بِالنَّهَارِ»