AHMAD 22406:
from Thawbān —
[Machine] The Messenger of Allah ﷺ said, "The best dinar [coin] that a man spends is on his family, then on himself, then in the way of Allah, and then on his companions in the way of Allah." Abu Qilabah said, "He begins with his family." Sulaiman bin Harb said, "And it is not raised by a dinar spent by a man on his riding animal in the way of Allah."
أحمد ٢٢٤٠٦:
عن ثوبان —
قَالَ رَسُولُ اللهِ ﷺ أَفْضَلُ دِينَارٍ [دِينَارٌ] يُنْفِقُهُ الرَّجُلُ عَلَى عِيَالِهِ ثُمَّ عَلَى نَفْسِهِ ثُمَّ فِي سَبِيلِ اللهِ ثُمَّ عَلَى أَصْحَابِهِ فِي سَبِيلِ اللهِ قَالَ أَبُو قِلَابَةَ فَيَبْدَأُ بِالْعِيَالِ وقَالَ سُلَيْمَانُ بْنُ حَرْبٍ وَلَمْ يَرْفَعْهُ دِينَارٌ أَنْفَقَهُ رَجُلٌ عَلَىدَابَّتِهِ فِي سَبِيلِ اللهِ
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