from 'Aishah that the Messenger of Allah ﷺ used to say: "Indeed your affair [feminine plural: referring to the wives of the Prophet ﷺ] is from that which concerns me after me, and none shall be able to be patient concerning you except the patient ones." He said: "Then 'Aishah said: 'So may Allah give your father drink from the Salsabil of Paradise" intending 'Abdur-Rahman bin 'Awf (Abu Salamah is the son of 'Abdur-Rahman bin 'Awf). And he had maintained ties with the wives of the Prophet ﷺ with property that had been sold for forty-thousand.
أَنَّ رَسُولَ اللَّهِ ﷺ كَانَ يَقُولُ إِنَّ أَمْرَكُنَّ مِمَّا يُهِمُّنِي بَعْدِي وَلَنْ يَصْبِرَ عَلَيْكُنَّ إِلاَّ الصَّابِرُونَ قَالَ ثُمَّ تَقُولُ عَائِشَةُ فَسَقَى اللَّهُ أَبَاكَ مِنْ سَلْسَبِيلِ الْجَنَّةِ تُرِيدُ عَبْدَ الرَّحْمَنِ بْنَ عَوْفٍ وَقَدْ كَانَ وَصَلَ أَزْوَاجَ النَّبِيِّ ﷺ بِمَالٍ يقالُ بِيعَتْ بِأَرْبَعِينَ أَلْفًا هَذَا حَدِيثٌ حَسَنٌ غَرِيبٌ