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tabarani:16439Yūsuf al-Qāḍī > Muḥammad b. Abū Bakr al-Muqaddamī > ʿAmr b. al-Nuʿmān > Mūsá b. Dihqān > al-Rabīʿ b. Kaʿb b. ʿUjrah > Bīh

[Machine] I was with the Prophet ﷺ and he said, "O so-and-so, did you get married?" He replied, "No." The Prophet then asked me, "Did you get married?" I said, "Yes." He asked, "Did you marry a virgin or a previously married woman?" I replied, "Not a virgin, but a previously married woman." The Prophet then said, "So why don't you marry a virgin so that she can bite you and you can bite her?"  

الطبراني:١٦٤٣٩حَدَّثَنَا يُوسُفُ الْقَاضِي ثنا مُحَمَّدُ بْنُ أَبِي بَكْرٍ الْمُقَدَّمِيُّ ثنا عَمْرُو بْنُ النُّعْمَانِ حَدَّثَنِي مُوسَى بْنُ دِهْقَانَ حَدَّثَنِي الرَّبِيعُ بْنُ كَعْبِ بْنِ عُجْرَةَ عَنْ أبِيهِ قَالَ

كُنْتُ عِنْدَ النَّبِيِّ ﷺ فَقَالَ «يَا فُلَانُ تَزَوَّجْتَ؟» فَقَالَ لَا فَقَالَ لِي «تَزَوَّجْتَ؟» فَقُلْتُ نَعَمْ فَقَالَ «أَبِكْرًا أَمْ ثَيِّبًا؟» قُلْتُ لَا بَلْ ثَيِّبًا فَقَالَ «فَهَلَّا بِكْرًا تَعَضُّهَا وَتَعَضُّكَ»  


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nasai:3219Qutaybah > Ḥammād > ʿAmr > Jābir

It was narrated that Jabir said: "I got married then I came to the Prophet and he said: 'Have you got married, O Jabir?' I said: 'Yes.' He said: 'To a virgin or to a previously married woman?' I said: 'To a previously married woman.' He said: 'Why not a virgin, so you could play with her and she could play with you?'"  

النسائي:٣٢١٩أَخْبَرَنَا قُتَيْبَةُ قَالَ حَدَّثَنَا حَمَّادٌ عَنْ عَمْرٍو عَنْ جَابِرٍ قَالَ

تَزَوَّجْتُ فَأَتَيْتُ النَّبِيَّ ﷺ فَقَالَ أَتَزَوَّجْتَ يَا جَابِرُ قُلْتُ نَعَمْ قَالَ بِكْرًا أَمْ ثَيِّبًا فَقُلْتُ ثَيِّبًا قَالَ فَهَلاَّ بِكْرًا تُلاَعِبُهَا وَتُلاَعِبُكَ