TABARANI 7575:
from al-Nabī Ṣallá —
[Machine] "From the Prophet ﷺ who said: 'Indeed, people are like a tree with fruit, and soon you will return to a tree with thorns. If you criticize them, they will criticize you; and if you leave them, they will not leave you. And if you run away from them, they will seek you out.' He was asked, 'So how does one find a way out of that, O Messenger of Allah?' He replied, 'Lend them from your possessions for the day of your encounter."
الطبراني ٧٥٧٥:
عن النبي صلى —
عَنِ النَّبِيِّ ﷺ قَالَ «إِنَّ النَّاسَ شَجَرَةٌ ذَاتُ جَنى وَيُوشِكُ أَنْ تَعُودُوا شَجَرَةً ذَاتَ شَوْكٍ إِنْ نَاقَدْتَهُمْ نَاقَدُوكَ وَإِنْ تَرَكْتَهُمْ لَمْ يَتْرُكُوكَ وَإِنْ هَرَبْتَ مِنْهُمْ طَلَبُوكَ» قَالَ فَكَيْفَ الْمَخْرَجُ مِنْ ذَلِكَ يَا رَسُولَ اللهِ؟ قَالَ «تُقْرِضُهُمْ مِنْ عِرْضِكَ لِيَوْمِ فَاقَتِكَ»
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