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quran:19:14

And dutiful to his parents, and he was not a disobedient tyrant.  

and dutiful to his parents, that is, virtuous towards them. And he was not arrogant or rebellious, disobedient to his Lord.
القرآن:١٩:١٤

وَبَرًّا بِوَالِدَيْهِ وَلَمْ يَكُنْ جَبَّارًا عَصِيًّا  

{وبرّا بوالديه} أي: محسنا إليهما {ولم يكن جبارا} متكبرا {عصيا} عاصيا لربه.