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nasai:1855Muḥammad b. Ādam > ʿAbdah > Hishām from his father > Ibn ʿUmar

'The deceased is punished due to his family's weeping over him; Mention of that was made to 'Aishah and she said: 'He is wrong; rather the Prophet passed by a grave and said: The occupant of this grave is being punished and his family are weeping for him." Then she recited: And no bearer of burdens shall bear another's burden.  

النسائي:١٨٥٥أَخْبَرَنَا مُحَمَّدُ بْنُ آدَمَ عَنْ عَبْدَةَ عَنْ هِشَامٍ عَنْ أَبِيهِ عَنِ ابْنِ عُمَرَ قَالَ

قَالَ رَسُولُ اللَّهِ ﷺ إِنَّ الْمَيِّتَ لَيُعَذَّبُ بِبُكَاءِ أَهْلِهِ عَلَيْهِ فَذُكِرَ ذَلِكَ لِعَائِشَةَ فَقَالَتْ وَهِلَ إِنَّمَا مَرَّ النَّبِيُّ ﷺ عَلَى قَبْرٍ فَقَالَ إِنَّ صَاحِبَ الْقَبْرِ لَيُعَذَّبُ وَإِنَّ أَهْلَهُ يَبْكُونَ عَلَيْهِ ثُمَّ قَرَأَتْ { وَلاَ تَزِرُ وَازِرَةٌ وِزْرَ أُخْرَى }  


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abudawud:3129Hannād b. al-Sarī > ʿAbdah And ʾAbī Muʿāwiyah al-Maʿná > Hishām b. ʿUrwah from his father > Ibn ʿUmar

The Messenger of Allah ﷺ as saying: The dead is punished because of his family's weeping for him. When this was mentioned to 'Aishah, she said: Ibn 'Umar forgot and made a mistake. The Prophet ﷺ passed by grave and he said: The man in the grave is being punished while his family is weeping for him. She then recited: "No bearer of burdens can bear the burden of another." The narrator Abu Mu'awiyyah said: (The Prophet passed) by the grave of a Jew.  

أبو داود:٣١٢٩حَدَّثَنَا هَنَّادُ بْنُ السَّرِيِّ عَنْ عَبْدَةَ وَأَبِي مُعَاوِيَةَ الْمَعْنَى عَنْ هِشَامِ بْنِ عُرْوَةَ عَنْ أَبِيهِ عَنِ ابْنِ عُمَرَ قَالَ

قَالَ رَسُولُ اللَّهِ ﷺ إِنَّ الْمَيِّتَ لَيُعَذَّبُ بِبُكَاءِ أَهْلِهِ عَلَيْهِ فَذُكِرَ ذَلِكَ لِعَائِشَةَ فَقَالَتْ وَهِلَ تَعْنِي ابْنَ عُمَرَ إِنَّمَا مَرَّ النَّبِيُّ ﷺ عَلَى قَبْرٍ فَقَالَ إِنَّ صَاحِبَ هَذَا لَيُعَذَّبُ وَأَهْلُهُ يَبْكُونَ عَلَيْهِ ثُمَّ قَرَأَتْ { وَلاَ تَزِرُ وَازِرَةٌ وِزْرَ أُخْرَى } قَالَ عَنْ أَبِي مُعَاوِيَةَ عَلَى قَبْرِ يَهُودِيٍّ  

ahmad:4865Yazīd > Muḥammad b. ʿAmr > Yaḥyá b. ʿAbd al-Raḥman b. Ḥāṭib > Ibn ʿUmar

[Machine] The Messenger of Allah ﷺ passed by a grave and said, "Verily, the occupant of this grave is being punished now because of the weeping of his family over him." Aisha (may Allah be pleased with her) said, "May Allah forgive Abu Abdur Rahman. Indeed, does not Allah say, 'And no bearer of burdens will bear the burden of another'" (Surah Al Anaam 164). The Messenger of Allah ﷺ only said that this person is being punished now while his family weeps over him.  

أحمد:٤٨٦٥حَدَّثَنَا يَزِيدُ أَخْبَرَنَا مُحَمَّدُ بْنُ عَمْرٍو عَنْ يَحْيَى بْنِ عَبْدِ الرَّحْمَنِ بْنِ حَاطِبٍ عَنِ ابْنِ عُمَرَ قَالَ

مَرَّ رَسُولُ اللهِ ﷺ بِقَبْرٍ فَقَالَ إِنَّ هَذَا لَيُعَذَّبُ الْآنَ بِبُكَاءِ أَهْلِهِ عَلَيْهِ فَقَالَتْ عَائِشَةُ غَفَرَ اللهُ لِأَبِي عَبْدِ الرَّحْمَنِ إِنَّهُ وَهِلَ إِنَّ اللهَ تَعَالَى يَقُولُ {وَلَا تَزِرُ وَازِرَةٌ وِزْرَأُخْرَى} [الأنعام 164] إِنَّمَا قَالَ رَسُولُ اللهِ ﷺ إِنَّ هَذَا لَيُعَذَّبُ الْآنَ وَأَهْلُهُ يَبْكُونَ عَلَيْهِ  

ahmad:4959ʿAbdah > Hishām from his father > Ibn ʿUmar

The Messenger of Allah ﷺ as saying: The dead is punished because of his family's weeping for him. When this was mentioned to 'Aishah, she said: Ibn 'Umar forgot and made a mistake. The Prophet ﷺ passed by grave and he said: The man in the grave is being punished while his family is weeping for him. She then recited: "No bearer of burdens can bear the burden of another." The narrator Abu Mu'awiyyah said: (The Prophet passed) by the grave of a Jew. (Using translation from Abū Dāʾūd 3129)   

أحمد:٤٩٥٩حَدَّثَنَا عَبْدَةُ حَدَّثَنَا هِشَامٌ عَنْ أَبِيهِ عَنِ ابْنِ عُمَرَ

عَنِ النَّبِيِّ ﷺ أَنَّهُ قَالَ إِنَّ الْمَيِّتَ لَيُعَذَّبُ بِبُكَاءِ أَهْلِهِ عَلَيْهِ فَذُكِرَ ذَلِكَ لِعَائِشَةَ فَقَالَتْ وَهِلَ يَعْنِي ابْنَ عُمَرَ إِنَّمَا مَرَّ رَسُولُ اللهِ ﷺ عَلَى قَبْرٍ فَقَالَ إِنَّ صَاحِبَ هَذَا لَيُعَذَّبُ وَأَهْلُهُ يَبْكُونَ عَلَيْهِ ثُمَّ قَرَأَتْ هَذِهِ الْآيَةَ {وَلَا تَزِرُ وَازِرَةٌ وِزْرَ أُخْرَى} [الأنعام 164]  

nasai-kubra:1994Muḥammad b. Ādam > ʿAbdah > Hishām from his father > Ibn ʿUmar

'The deceased is punished due to his family's weeping over him; Mention of that was made to 'Aishah and she said: 'He is wrong; rather the Prophet passed by a grave and said: The occupant of this grave is being punished and his family are weeping for him." Then she recited: And no bearer of burdens shall bear another's burden. (Using translation from Nasāʾī 1855)  

الكبرى للنسائي:١٩٩٤أَخْبَرَنِي مُحَمَّدُ بْنُ آدَمَ عَنْ عَبْدَةَ عَنْ هِشَامٍ عَنْ أَبِيهِ عَنِ ابْنِ عُمَرَ قَالَ

قَالَ النَّبِيُّ ﷺ إِنَّ الْمَيِّتَ لَيُعَذَّبُ بِبُكَاءِ أَهْلِهِ عَلَيْهِ فَذُكِرَ ذَلِكَ لِعَائِشَةَ فَقَالَتْ وَهَلْ إِنَّمَا مَرَّ النَّبِيُّ ﷺ عَلَى قَبْرٍ فَقَالَ إِنَّ صَاحِبَ هَذَا الْقَبْرِ لَيُعَذَّبُ وَإِنَّ أَهْلَهُ يَبْكُونَ عَلَيْهِ ثُمَّ قَرَأَتْ {وَلَا تَزِرُ وَازِرَةٌ وِزْرَ أُخْرَى} [الأنعام 164]