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[Machine] I heard Ummul Mu'minin Aisha say that the Messenger of Allah ﷺ used to have sexual relations (with his wives) while fasting. So Shurayh, a man from the Nakha'i tribe, said, "I am more inclined to strike you with this bow." The Prophet ﷺ said, "O people of Nakha'i, give permission to your companion (to strike me) so that he can withhold his bow until we return to Ummul Mu'minin Aisha." Then he mentioned a statement that meant we went to Ummul Mu'minin Aisha. Some of us said to her, "Indeed, someone informed us from you that you said that the Messenger of Allah ﷺ used to have sexual relations (with his wives) while fasting." She said, "Yes, but the Messenger of Allah ﷺ had control over himself more than you."  

الكبرى للنسائي:٣٠٨١أَخْبَرَنَا الْحَسَنُ بْنُ مُحَمَّدٍ قَالَ حَدَّثَنَا عَبِيدَةُ عَنْ مَنْصُورٍ عَنْ إِبْرَاهِيمَ عَنْ عَلْقَمَةَ قَالَ خَرَجَ نَاسٌ حُجَّاجًا أَوْ عُمَّارًا فَقَالَ بَعْضُهُمْ

سَمِعْتُ أُمَّ الْمُؤْمِنِينَ عَائِشَةَ تَقُولُ إِنَّ رَسُولَ اللهِ ﷺ كَانَ يُبَاشِرُ وَهُوَ صَائِمٌ فَقَالَ شُرَيْحٌ رَجُلٌ مِنَ النَّخَعِ إِنِّي أَهِمُّ أَنْ أَضْرِبَكَ بِهَذَا الْقَوْسِ فَقَالَ يَا مَعْشَرَ النَّخَعِ مُرُوا صَاحِبَكُمْ فَيَحْبَسَ قَوْسَهُ حَتَّى نَقْدَمَ عَلَى أُمِّ الْمُؤْمِنِينَ ثُمَّ ذَكَرَ كَلِمَةً مَعْنَاهَا فَقَدِمْنَا عَلَى أُمِّ الْمُؤْمِنِينَ عَائِشَةَ فَقَالَ بَعْضُنَا إِنَّ هَذَا أَخْبَرَنَا عَنْكِ أَنَّكِ قُلْتِ كَانَ رَسُولُ اللهِ ﷺ يُبَاشِرُ وَهُوَ صَائِمٌ قَالَتْ أَجَلْ وَلَكِنَّ كَانَ رَسُولَ اللهِ ﷺ أَمْلَكُكُمْ لِإِرْبِهِ