16. The Book of Marriage

١٦۔ كتاب النكاح

16.10 It is permissible for a father to arrange the marriage of a young virgin

١٦۔١٠ باب تَزْوِيجِ الأَبِ الْبِكْرَ الصَّغِيرَةَ

Aishah’s marriage to the Prophet ﷺ and joining his household

(897) bukhari:3894Farwah b. Abī al-Maghrāʾ > ʿAlī b. Mushir > Hishām > his father > ʿĀʾishah ؓ

The Prophet ﷺ married me when I was a girl of six years. We came to Madinah and stayed among Banu al-Harith ibn Khazraj. I fell ill, and my hair came out, then it grew back until it reached my earlobes. 

My mother, Umm Ruman, came to me while I was on a swing with some friends of mine. She called out to me, so I came to her, not knowing what she wanted with me. She took me by the hand until she made me stand at the door of the house, and I was breathing heavily until part of my breath settled. Then she took some water and wiped my face and head with it. Then she brought me into the house, and there were women of the Ansar in the house. They said, "Upon goodness and blessing, and upon the best fortune." She handed me over to them, and they prepared me. Nothing startled me except the Messenger of Allah ﷺ in the forenoon; then she handed me over to him. At that time, I was a girl of nine years.

(٨٩٧) البخاري:٣٨٩٤حَدَّثَنِي فَرْوَةُ بْنُ أَبِي الْمَغْرَاءِ حَدَّثَنَا عَلِيُّ بْنُ مُسْهِرٍ عَنْ هِشَامٍ عَنْ أَبِيهِ عَنْ عَائِشَةَ ؓ قَالَتْ

تَزَوَّجَنِي النَّبِيُّ ﷺ وَأَنَا بِنْتُ سِتِّ سِنِينَ، فَقَدِمْنَا الْمَدِينَةَ فَنَزَلْنَا فِي بَنِي الْحَارِثِ بْنِ خَزْرَجٍ، فَوُعِكْتُ فَتَمَرَّقَ شَعَرِي فَوَفَى جُمَيْمَةً،

فَأَتَتْنِي أُمِّي أُمُّ رُومَانَ وَإِنِّي لَفِي أُرْجُوحَةٍ وَمَعِي صَوَاحِبُ لِي، فَصَرَخَتْ بِي فَأَتَيْتُهَا لاَ أَدْرِي مَا تُرِيدُ بِي، فَأَخَذَتْ بِيَدِي حَتَّى أَوْقَفَتْنِي عَلَى باب الدَّارِ، وَإِنِّي لأَنْهَجُ حَتَّى سَكَنَ بَعْضُ نَفَسِي، ثُمَّ أَخَذَتْ شَيْئًا مِنْ مَاءٍ فَمَسَحَتْ بِهِ وَجْهِي وَرَأْسِي، ثُمَّ أَدْخَلَتْنِي الدَّارَ، فَإِذَا نِسْوَةٌ مِنَ الأَنْصَارِ فِي الْبَيْتِ، فَقُلْنَ: عَلَى الْخَيْرِ وَالْبَرَكَةِ وَعَلَى خَيْرِ طَائِرٍ، فَأَسْلَمَتْنِي إِلَيْهِنَّ فَأَصْلَحْنَ مِنْ شَأْنِي، فَلَمْ يَرُعْنِي إِلاَّ رَسُولُ اللَّهِ ﷺ ضُحًى، فَأَسْلَمَتْنِي إِلَيْهِ، وَأَنَا يَوْمَئِذٍ بِنْتُ تِسْعِ سِنِينَ.