13. Judgements

١٣۔ كتاب الأحكام

13.22 Giving A Child The Choice Between His The Parents

١٣۔٢٢ باب تَخْيِيرِ الصَّبِيِّ بَيْنَ أَبَوَيْهِ

ibnmajah:2351Hishām b. ʿAmmār > Sufyān b. ʿUyaynah > Ziyād b. Saʿd > Hilāl b. Abū Maymūnah > Abū Maymūnah > Abū Hurayrah

the Prophet ﷺ gave a child the choice between his father and his mother (i.e., which parent to live with). He said: “O boy, this is your mother and this is your father.”  

ابن ماجة:٢٣٥١حَدَّثَنَا هِشَامُ بْنُ عَمَّارٍ حَدَّثَنَا سُفْيَانُ بْنُ عُيَيْنَةَ عَنْ زِيَادِ بْنِ سَعْدٍ عَنْ هِلاَلِ بْنِ أَبِي مَيْمُونَةَ عَنْ أَبِي مَيْمُونَةَ عَنْ أَبِي هُرَيْرَةَ

أَنَّ النَّبِيَّ ﷺ خَيَّرَ غُلاَمًا بَيْنَ أَبِيهِ وَأُمِّهِ وَقَالَ يَا غُلاَمُ هَذِهِ أُمُّكَ وَهَذَا أَبُوكَ  

ibnmajah:2352Abū Bakr b. Abū Shaybah > Ismāʿīl Ibn ʿUlayyah > ʿUthmān al-Battī > ʿAbd al-Ḥamīd b. Salamah from his father from his grandfather

his parents referred their dispute to the Prophet ﷺ, and one of them was a disbeliever. He (the Prophet ﷺ) said: “O Allah, guide him,” and he turned towards the Muslim, and he ruled that he should go with that parent.  

ابن ماجة:٢٣٥٢حَدَّثَنَا أَبُو بَكْرِ بْنُ أَبِي شَيْبَةَ حَدَّثَنَا إِسْمَاعِيلُ ابْنُ عُلَيَّةَ عَنْ عُثْمَانَ الْبَتِّيِّ عَنْ عَبْدِ الْحَمِيدِ بْنِ سَلَمَةَ عَنْ أَبِيهِ عَنْ جَدِّهِ

أَنَّ أَبَوَيْهِ اخْتَصَمَا إِلَى النَّبِيِّ ﷺ أَحَدُهُمَا كَافِرٌ وَالآخَرُ مُسْلِمٌ فَخَيَّرَهُ فَتَوَجَّهَ إِلَى الْكَافِرِ فَقَالَ اللَّهُمَّ اهْدِهِ فَتَوَجَّهَ إِلَى الْمُسْلِمِ فَقَضَى لَهُ بِهِ