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ذِكْرُ إِبَاحَةِ الْإِمَامِ أَنْ يَخْطُبَ إِلَى مَنْ أَحَبَّ عَلَى مَنْ أَحَبَّ مِنْ رَعِيَّتِهِ

ibnhibban:4059 – ʿAbdullāh b. Muḥammad al-Azdī > Isḥāq b. Ibrāhīm > ʿAbd al-Razzāq > Maʿmar > Thābit > Anas b. Mālik

[Machine] The Messenger of Allah ﷺ proposed to a woman from the Ansar, and her father agreed. However, her mother refused. So, the Prophet ﷺ went to his wife and mentioned it to her, and she said, "By Allah, will you do that when we have forbidden her to marry such and such men?" The Prophet ﷺ asked the young girl if she would accept his proposal if he agreed. She replied, "If the Messenger of Allah ﷺ desires it, then I will marry him." Her father went to the Prophet ﷺ and said, "If you are pleased with her, we are pleased with her." The Prophet ﷺ replied, "I am pleased with her," and he married her. Later, the people of Madinah were startled when the wife of Juleibib went out and found her husband killed, with slain disbelievers lying beside him. Anas ibn Malik said, "I have never seen anyone in Madinah who spent more in charity than Thayyib."  

ابن حبّان:٤٠٥٩ – أَخْبَرَنَا عَبْدُ اللَّهِ بْنُ مُحَمَّدٍ الْأَزْدِيُّ قَالَ حَدَّثَنَا إِسْحَاقُ بْنُ إِبْرَاهِيمَ قَالَ أَخْبَرَنَا عَبْدُ الرَّزَّاقِ* قَالَ أَخْبَرَنَا مَعْمَرٌ عَنْ ثَابِتٍ عَنْ أَنَسِ بْنِ مَالِكٍ قَالَ

«خَطَبَ رَسُولُ اللَّهِ ﷺ عَلَى جُلَيْبِيبٍ امْرَأَةً مِنَ الْأَنْصَارِ إِلَى أَبِيهَا قَالَ حَتَّى أَسْتَأْمِرَ أُمَّهَا قَالَ فَنَعَمْ إِذًا فَذَهَبَ إِلَى امْرَأَتِهِ فَذَكَرَ ذَلِكَ لَهَا فَقَالَتْ لَا هَا اللَّهِ إِذًا وَقَدْ مَنَعْنَاهَا فُلَانًا وَفُلَانًا قَالَ وَالْجَارِيَةُ فِي سِتْرِهَا تَسْمَعُ فَقَالَتِ الْجَارِيَةُ أَتَرُدُّونَ عَلَى رَسُولِ اللَّهِ ﷺ أَمْرَهُ إِنْ كَانَ قَدْ رَضِيَهُ لَكُمْ فَأَنْكِحُوهُ قَالَ فَكَأَنَّهَا حَلَّتْ عَنْ أَبَوَيْهَا فَقَالَا صَدَقْتِ فَذَهَبَ أَبُوهَا إِلَى رَسُولِ اللَّهِ ﷺ فَقَالَ إِنْ رَضِيتَهُ لَنَا رَضِينَاهُ فَقَالَ إِنِّي أَرْضَاهُ فَزَوَّجَهَا فَفَزِعَ أَهْلُ الْمَدِينَةِ وَخَرَجَتْ امْرَأَةُ جُلَيْبِيبٍ فِيهَا فَوَجَدَتْ زَوْجَهَا وَقَدْ قُتِلَ وَتَحْتَهُ قَتْلَى مِنَ الْمُشْرِكِينَ قَدْ قَتَلَهُمْ قَالَ أَنَسُ بْنُ مَالِكٍ فَمَا رَأَيْتُ بِالْمَدِينَةِ ثَيِّبًا أَنْفَقَ مِنْهَا  

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ahmad:12393 – ʿAbd al-Razzāq > Maʿmar > Thābit al-Bunānī > Anas

[Machine] The Prophet ﷺ delivered a sermon on the pulpit, praising a woman from the Ansar (people of Madinah) to her father. He said, "I will go and ask her mother's permission (for marriage)." The Prophet ﷺ then said, "That would be good." The man then went to his wife and told her what the Prophet said. She said with surprise, "By Allah, the Messenger of Allah ﷺ only seeks Juleibib, and we have refused him for so-and-so and so-and-so (men)." The man said, "And the slave girl, with her veil on, was listening." He then went to inform the Prophet ﷺ about this, when the slave girl said, "Do you want to contradict the order of the Messenger of Allah ﷺ ? If he is pleased with you, then marry him." It is as if she (the girl) had disappeared from her parents (i.e. she did not need their permission) and they said, "You have spoken the truth." So her father went to the Prophet ﷺ and said, "If you have already accepted him (for marriage), then we accept him." The Prophet ﷺ said, "Indeed, I have accepted him." He then married her off. The people of Madinah were shocked and disturbed. They gathered and found Juleibib killed, and there were some polytheists surrounding him, whom he had killed. Anas said, "I saw her (the girl) and indeed, she was one of the most generous people in Madinah."  

أحمد:١٢٣٩٣ – حَدَّثَنَا عَبْدُ الرَّزَّاقِ حَدَّثَنَا مَعْمَرٌ عَنْ ثَابِتٍ الْبُنَانِيِّ عَنْ أَنَسٍ قَالَ

خَطَبَ النَّبِيُّ ﷺ عَلَى جُلَيْبِيبٍ امْرَأَةً مِنَ الْأَنْصَارِ إِلَى أَبِيهَا فَقَالَ حَتَّى أَسْتَأْمِرَ أُمَّهَا فَقَالَ النَّبِيُّ ﷺ فَنَعَمْ إِذًا قَالَ فَانْطَلَقَ الرَّجُلُ إِلَى امْرَأَتِهِ فَذَكَرَ ذَلِكَ لَهَا فَقَالَتْ لَاهَا اللهُ إِذًا مَا وَجَدَ رَسُولُ اللهِ ﷺ إِلَّا جُلَيْبِيبًا وَقَدْ مَنَعْنَاهَا مِنْ فُلَانٍ وَفُلَانٍ؟ قَالَ وَالْجَارِيَةُ فِي سِتْرِهَا تَسْتَمِعُ قَالَ فَانْطَلَقَ الرَّجُلُ يُرِيدُ أَنْ يُخْبِرَ النَّبِيَّ ﷺ بِذَلِكَ فَقَالَتِ الْجَارِيَةُ أَتُرِيدُونَ أَنْ تَرُدُّوا عَلَى رَسُولِ اللهِ ﷺ أَمْرَهُ؟ إِنْ كَانَ قَدْ رَضِيَهُ لَكُمْ فَأَنْكِحُوهُ قَالَ فَكَأَنَّهَا جَلَّتْ عَنْ أَبَوَيْهَا وَقَالَا صَدَقْتِ فَذَهَبَ أَبُوهَا إِلَى النَّبِيِّ ﷺ فَقَالَ إِنْ كُنْتَ قَدْ رَضِيتَهُ فَقَدْ رَضِينَاهُ قَالَ فَإِنِّي قَدْ رَضِيتُهُ فَزَوَّجَهَا ثُمَّ فُزِّعَ أَهْلُ الْمَدِينَةِ فَرَكِبَ جُلَيْبِيبٌ فَوَجَدُوهُ قَدْ قُتِلَ وَحَوْلَهُ نَاسٌ مِنَ الْمُشْرِكِينَ قَدْ قَتَلَهُمْ قَالَ أَنَسٌ فَلَقَدْ رَأَيْتُهَا وَإِنَّهَا لَمِنْ أَنْفَقِ ثَيِّبٍ فِي الْمَدِينَةِ