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hakim:7789 – ʿAbdullāh b. al-Ḥusayn al-Qāḍī Bimarw > al-Ḥārith b. Abū Usāmah > Muḥammad b. ʿĪsá b. al-Ṭabbāʿ > Bakkār b. ʿAbd al-ʿAzīz b. Abū Bakrah > Abū > Abū Bakrah

[Machine] "Indeed, the Prophet ﷺ was approached by Bashir, who gave him the glad tidings of victory in a battle, with his head in the lap of Aisha. The Prophet then got up and humbly prostrated to Allah. When he finished, he started asking the Messenger about the situation of the enemy. There was a woman following them, so the Prophet ﷺ said, 'Men are ruined when they obey women.'"  

الحاكم:٧٧٨٩ – أَخْبَرَنَا عَبْدُ اللَّهِ بْنُ الْحُسَيْنِ الْقَاضِي بِمَرْوَ ثَنَا الْحَارِثُ بْنُ أَبِي أُسَامَةَ ثَنَا مُحَمَّدُ بْنُ عِيسَى بْنِ الطَّبَّاعِ ثَنَا بَكَّارُ بْنُ عَبْدِ الْعَزِيزِ بْنِ أَبِي بَكْرَةَ قَالَ سَمِعْتُ أَبِي يُحَدِّثُ عَنْ أَبِي بَكْرَةَ

أَنَّ النَّبِيَّ ﷺ أَتَاهُ بَشِيرٌ يُبَشِّرُهُ بِظَفَرِ خَيْلٍ لَهُ وَرَأْسُهُ فِي حِجْرِ عَائِشَةَ فَقَامَ فَخَرَّ لِلَّهِ تَعَالَى سَاجِدًا فَلَمَّا انْصَرَفَ أَنْشَأَ يَسْأَلُ الرَّسُولَ فَحَدَّثَهُ فَكَانَ فِيمَا حَدَّثَهُ مِنْ أَمْرِ الْعَدُوِّ وَكَانَتْ تَلِيهُمُ امْرَأَةٌ فَقَالَ النَّبِيُّ ﷺ «هَلَكَتِ الرِّجَالُ حِينَ أَطَاعَتِ النِّسَاءَ»  

هَذَا حَدِيثٌ صَحِيحُ الْإِسْنَادِ وَلَمْ يُخَرِّجَاهُ وَشَاهِدُهُ صَحِيحٌ عَلَى شَرْطِ الشَّيْخَيْنِ صحيح

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ahmad:20455 – Aḥmad b. ʿAbd al-Malik al-Ḥarrānī > Abū Bakarah Bakkār b. ʿAbd al-ʿAzīz b. Abū Bakarah > Abū > Abū Bakarah

[Machine] He witnessed the Prophet ﷺ being informed by Bashir that he would be granted victory over their enemies, and that their leader's head would be in the possession of Aisha. The Prophet ﷺ then stood up and prostrated, then began questioning Bashir about what he had been informed. Bashir informed him that a woman would be their leader. The Prophet ﷺ said, "Now, men are ruined when they obey women. Men are ruined when they obey women thrice."  

أحمد:٢٠٤٥٥ – حَدَّثَنَا أَحْمَدُ بْنُ عَبْدِ الْمَلِكِ الْحَرَّانِيُّ حَدَّثَنَا أَبُو بَكَرَةَ بَكَّارُ بْنُ عَبْدِ الْعَزِيزِ بْنِ أَبِي بَكَرَةَ قَالَ سَمِعْتُ أَبِي يُحَدِّثُ عَنْ أَبِي بَكَرَةَ

أَنَّهُ شَهِدَ النَّبِيَّ ﷺ أَتَاهُ بَشِيرٌ يُبَشِّرُهُ بِظَفَرِ جُنْدٍ لَهُ عَلَى عَدُوِّهِمْ وَرَأْسُهُ فِي حِجْرِ عَائِشَةَ فَقَامَ فَخَرَّ سَاجِدًا ثُمَّ أَنْشَأَ يُسَائِلُ الْبَشِيرَ فَأَخْبَرَهُ فِيمَا أَخْبَرَهُ أَنَّهُ وَلِيَ أَمْرَهُمْ امْرَأَةٌ فَقَالَ النَّبِيُّ ﷺ الْآنَ هَلَكَتِ الرِّجَالُ إِذَا أَطَاعَتِ النِّسَاءَ هَلَكَتِ الرِّجَالُ إِذَا أَطَاعَتِ النِّسَاءَ ثَلَاثًا