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hakim:2760Abū Bakr b. Isḥāq al-Faqīh > al-Ḥasan b. ʿAlī b. Ziyād > Aḥmad b. Yūnus > ʿAbd al-Raḥman b. Abū al-Zinād > Hishām b. ʿUrwah from his father > ʿĀʾishah > Lah

On the authority of his father that 'Aishah said: O my nephew, the Messenger of Allah ﷺ did not prefer one of us to the other in respect of his division of the time of his staying with us. It was very rare that he did not visit us any day (i.e. he visited all of us every day). He would come near each of his wives without having intercourse with her until he reached the one who had her day and passed his night with her. When Saudah daughter of Zam'ah became old and feared that the Messenger of Allah ﷺ would divorce her, she said: Messenger of Allah, I give to 'Aishah the day you visit me. The Messenger of Allah ﷺ accepted it from her. She said: We think that Allah, the Exalted, revealed about this or similar matter the Qur'anic verse: "If a wife fears cruelty or desertion on her husband's part...." [4:128] (Using translation from Abū Dāʾūd 2135)   

الحاكم:٢٧٦٠حَدَّثَنَا أَبُو بَكْرِ بْنُ إِسْحَاقَ الْفَقِيهُ أَنْبَأَ الْحَسَنُ بْنُ عَلِيِّ بْنِ زِيَادٍ ثنا أَحْمَدُ بْنُ يُونُسَ ثنا عَبْدُ الرَّحْمَنِ بْنُ أَبِي الزِّنَادِ عَنْ هِشَامِ بْنِ عُرْوَةَ عَنْ أَبِيهِ عَنْ عَائِشَةَ

أَنَّهَا قَالَتْ لَهُ يَا ابْنَ أُخْتِي «كَانَ رَسُولُ اللَّهِ ﷺ لَا يَفْضُلُ بَعْضَنَا عَلَى بَعْضٍ فِي مُكْثِهِ عِنْدَنَا وَكَانَ قَلَّ يَوْمٌ إِلَّا وَهُوَ يَطُوفُ عَلَيْنَا فَيَدْنُو مِنْ كُلِّ امْرَأَةٍ مِنْ غَيْرِ مَسِيسٍ حَتَّى يَبْلُغَ إِلَى مَنْ هُوَ يَوْمُهَا فَيَبِيتَ عِنْدَهَا» وَلَقَدْ قَالَتْ سَوْدَةُ بِنْتُ زَمْعَةَ حِينَ أَسَنَّتْ وَفَرِقَتْ أَنْ يُفَارِقَهَا رَسُولُ اللَّهِ ﷺ يَا رَسُولَ اللَّهِ يَوْمِي هُوَ لِعَائِشَةَ فَقَبِلَ ذَلِكَ مِنْهَا رَسُولُ اللَّهِ ﷺ قَالَتْ عَائِشَةُ فِي ذَاكَ أَنْزَلَ اللَّهُ ﷻ فِيهَا وَفِي أَشْبَاهِهَا {وَإِنِ امْرَأَةٌ خَافَتْ مِنْ بَعْلِهَا نُشُوزًا} [النساء 128]  

«هَذَا حَدِيثٌ صَحِيحُ الْإِسْنَادِ وَلَمْ يُخَرِّجَاهُ» صحيح

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abudawud:2135Aḥmad b. Yūnus > ʿAbd al-Raḥman / Ibn Abū al-Zinād > Hishām b. ʿUrwah from his father

On the authority of his father that 'Aishah said: O my nephew, the Messenger of Allah ﷺ did not prefer one of us to the other in respect of his division of the time of his staying with us. It was very rare that he did not visit us any day (i.e. he visited all of us every day). He would come near each of his wives without having intercourse with her until he reached the one who had her day and passed his night with her. When Saudah daughter of Zam'ah became old and feared that the Messenger of Allah ﷺ would divorce her, she said: Messenger of Allah, I give to 'Aishah the day you visit me. The Messenger of Allah ﷺ accepted it from her. She said: We think that Allah, the Exalted, revealed about this or similar matter the Qur'anic verse: "If a wife fears cruelty or desertion on her husband's part...." [4:128]  

أبو داود:٢١٣٥حَدَّثَنَا أَحْمَدُ بْنُ يُونُسَ حَدَّثَنَا عَبْدُ الرَّحْمَنِ يَعْنِي ابْنَ أَبِي الزِّنَادِ عَنْ هِشَامِ بْنِ عُرْوَةَ عَنْ أَبِيهِ قَالَ قَالَتْ

عَائِشَةُ يَا ابْنَ أُخْتِي كَانَ رَسُولُ اللَّهِ ﷺ لاَ يُفَضِّلُ بَعْضَنَا عَلَى بَعْضٍ فِي الْقَسْمِ مِنْ مُكْثِهِ عِنْدَنَا وَكَانَ قَلَّ يَوْمٌ إِلاَّ وَهُوَ يَطُوفُ عَلَيْنَا جَمِيعًا فَيَدْنُو مِنْ كُلِّ امْرَأَةٍ مِنْ غَيْرِ مَسِيسٍ حَتَّى يَبْلُغَ إِلَى الَّتِي هُوَ يَوْمُهَا فَيَبِيتُ عِنْدَهَا وَلْقَدْ قَالَتْ سَوْدَةُ بِنْتُ زَمْعَةَ حِينَ أَسَنَّتْ وَفَرِقَتْ أَنْ يُفَارِقَهَا رَسُولُ اللَّهِ ﷺ يَا رَسُولَ اللَّهِ يَوْمِي لِعَائِشَةَ فَقَبِلَ ذَلِكَ رَسُولُ اللَّهِ ﷺ مِنْهَا قَالَتْ نَقُولُ فِي ذَلِكَ أَنْزَلَ اللَّهُ تَعَالَى وَفِي أَشْبَاهِهَا أُرَاهُ قَالَ { وَإِنِ امْرَأَةٌ خَافَتْ مِنْ بَعْلِهَا نُشُوزًا }  

tabarani:20547[Chain 1] Abū Yazīd al-Qarāṭīsī > Saʿīd b. Abū Maryam [Chain 2] Muḥammad b. al-Rabīʿ b. Shāhīn > Abū al-Walīd al-Ṭayālisī [Chain 3] ʿUmar b. Ḥafṣ al-Sadūsī > Abū Bilāl al-Ashʿarī > ʿAbd al-Raḥman b. Abū Ziyād > Hishām from his father > ʿĀʾishah

[Machine] The Messenger of Allah ﷺ did not prefer one of us over another in terms of division, and he rarely had a day when he did not encircle around us and approach each one of us without any exception until he reached the one he spent the night with. Indeed, Sauda bint Zam'ah said to him, feeling desperate, that she wanted to part ways with him, to which he accepted. In her, the following verse was revealed: "And if a woman fears from her husband contempt or evasion, there is no blame upon them if they make terms of settlement between them."  

الطبراني:٢٠٥٤٧حَدَّثَنَا أَبُو يَزِيدَ الْقَرَاطِيسِيُّ ثنا سَعِيدُ بْنُ أَبِي مَرْيَمَ ح وَحَدَّثَنَا مُحَمَّدُ بْنُ الرَّبِيعِ بْنِ شَاهِينٍ ثنا أَبُو الْوَلِيدِ الطَّيَالِسِيُّ ح وَحَدَّثَنَا عُمَرُ بْنُ حَفْصٍ السَّدُوسِيُّ ثنا أَبُو بِلَالٍ الْأَشْعَرِيُّ قَالُوا ثنا عَبْدُ الرَّحْمَنِ بْنُ أَبِي زِيَادٍ عَنْ هِشَامٍ عَنْ أَبِيهِ عَنْ عَائِشَةَ قَالَتْ

مَا كَانَ رَسُولُ اللهِ ﷺ يُفَضِّلُ بَعْضَنَا عَلَى بَعْضٍ فِي الْقَسْمِ وَكَانَ قَلَّ يَوْمٌ إِلَّا وَهُوَ يُطِيفُ بِنَا وَيَدْنُو مِنْ كُلِّ امْرَأَةٍ مِنَّا مِنْ غَيْرِ مَسِيسٍ حَتَّى يَنْتَهِيَ إِلَى الَّتِي هُوَ يَوْمُهَا فَيَبِيتُ عِنْدَهَا فَلَقَدْ قَالَتْ لَهُ سَوْدَةُ بِنْتُ زَمْعَةَ وَكَانَتْ قَدْ يَئِسَتْ فَأَرَادَ أَنْ يُفَارِقَهَا فَقَالَتْ يَوْمِي مِنْكَ وَنَصِيبِي لِعَائِشَةَ فَقَبِلَ ذَلِكَ مِنْهَا فَفِيهَا نَزَلَتْ {وَإِنِ امْرَأَةٌ خَافَتْ مِنْ بَعْلِهَا نُشُوزًا أَوْ إِعْرَاضًا فَلَا جُنَاحَ عَلَيْهِمَا أَنْ يُصْلِحَا بَيْنَهُمَا صُلْحًا}  

bayhaqi:13434Abū ʿAlī al-Rūdhbārī > Abū Bakr b. Dāsah > Abū Dāwud > Aḥmad b. Yūnus > ʿAbd al-Raḥman b. Abū al-Zinād > Hishām b. ʿUrwah from his father > ʿĀʾishah

On the authority of his father that 'Aishah said: O my nephew, the Messenger of Allah ﷺ did not prefer one of us to the other in respect of his division of the time of his staying with us. It was very rare that he did not visit us any day (i.e. he visited all of us every day). He would come near each of his wives without having intercourse with her until he reached the one who had her day and passed his night with her. When Saudah daughter of Zam'ah became old and feared that the Messenger of Allah ﷺ would divorce her, she said: Messenger of Allah, I give to 'Aishah the day you visit me. The Messenger of Allah ﷺ accepted it from her. She said: We think that Allah, the Exalted, revealed about this or similar matter the Qur'anic verse: "If a wife fears cruelty or desertion on her husband's part...." [4:128] (Using translation from Abū Dāʾūd 2135)   

البيهقي:١٣٤٣٤أَخْبَرَنَا أَبُو عَلِيٍّ الرُّوذْبَارِيُّ أنبأ أَبُو بَكْرِ بْنُ دَاسَةَ ثنا أَبُو دَاوُدَ ثنا أَحْمَدُ بْنُ يُونُسَ ثنا عَبْدُ الرَّحْمَنِ بْنُ أَبِي الزِّنَادِ عَنْ هِشَامِ بْنِ عُرْوَةَ عَنْ أَبِيهِ قَالَ قَالَتْ عَائِشَةُ

ؓ يَا ابْنَ أُخْتِي كَانَ رَسُولُ اللهِ ﷺ لَا يُفَضِّلُ بَعْضَنَا عَلَى بَعْضٍ فِي الْقَسْمِ مِنْ مُكْثِهِ عِنْدَنَا وَكَانَ قَلَّ يَوْمٌ إِلَّا وَهُوَ يَطُوفُ عَلَيْنَا جَمِيعًا فَيَدْنُو مِنْ كُلِّ امْرَأَةٍ مِنْ غَيْرِ مَسِيسٍ حَتَّى يَبْلُغَ الَّذِي هُوَ يَوْمُهَا فَيَبِيتُ عِنْدَهَا وَلَقَدْ قَالَتْ سَوْدَةُ بِنْتُ زَمْعَةَ حِينَ أَسَنَّتْ وَفَرِقَتْ أَنْ يُفَارِقَهَا رَسُولُ اللهِ ﷺ فَقَالَتْ يَا رَسُولَ اللهِ يَوْمِي لِعَائِشَةَ فَقَبِلَ ذَلِكَ رَسُولُ اللهِ ﷺ مِنْهَا قَالَ تَقُولُ فِي ذَلِكَ أَنْزَلَ اللهُ تَعَالَى وَفِي أَشْبَاهِهَا أَرَاهُ قَالَ {وَإِنِ امْرَأَةٌ خَافَتْ مِنْ بَعْلِهَا نُشُوزًا أَوْ إِعْرَاضًا فَلَا جُنَاحَ عَلَيْهِمَا} [النساء 128] الْآيَةَ