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bayhaqi:17810Abū ʿAbdullāh al-Ḥāfiẓ > Abū al-Ḥasan Muḥammad b. Muḥammad b. al-Ḥasan > ʿAlī b. ʿAbd al-ʿAzīz > Ibrāhīm b. ʿAbdullāh al-Harawī > Hushaym > ʿAbd al-Ḥamīd b. Jaʿfar al-Anṣārī from his father > Samurah b. Jundub

[Machine] "I will not marry unless a man guarantees this orphan for me." The Messenger of Allah ﷺ offered the Ansar's young men every year, and whoever among them reached puberty, he would choose for them. He said, "I was offered for a year, and a young man was chosen for me, but he rejected me. I said, 'O Messenger of Allah, you have chosen him for me but he rejected me.' If I had wrestled him, I would have defeated him." He said, "Wrestle him then." So I wrestled him and defeated him; thus, he was decided for me."  

البيهقي:١٧٨١٠أَخْبَرَنَا أَبُو عَبْدِ اللهِ الْحَافِظُ ثنا أَبُو الْحَسَنِ مُحَمَّدُ بْنُ مُحَمَّدِ بْنِ الْحَسَنِ أنبأ عَلِيُّ بْنُ عَبْدِ الْعَزِيزِ ثنا إِبْرَاهِيمُ بْنُ عَبْدِ اللهِ الْهَرَوِيُّ ثنا هُشَيْمٌ ثنا عَبْدُ الْحَمِيدِ بْنُ جَعْفَرٍ الْأَنْصَارِيُّ عَنْ أَبِيهِ عَنْ سَمُرَةَ بْنِ جُنْدُبٍ ؓ قَالَ أَتَتْ بِي أُمِّي فَقَدِمَتِ الْمَدِينَةَ فَخَطَبَهَا النَّاسُ فَقَالَتْ

لَا أَتَزَوَّجُ إِلَّا بِرَجُلٍ يَكْفُلُ لِي هَذَا الْيَتِيمَ فَتَزَوَّجَهَا رَجُلٌ مِنَ الْأَنْصَارِ وَكَانَ رَسُولُ اللهِ ﷺ يَعْرِضُ غِلْمَانَ الْأَنْصَارِ فِي كُلِّ عَامٍ فَيُلْحِقُ مَنْ أَدْرَكَ مِنْهُمْ قَالَ وَعُرِضْتُ عَامًا فَأَلْحَقَ غُلَامًا وَرَدَّنِي فَقُلْتُ يَا رَسُولَ اللهِ لَقَدْ أَلْحَقْتَهُ وَرَدَدْتَنِي وَلَوْ صَارَعْتُهُ لَصَرَعْتُهُ قَالَ فَصَارِعْهُ فَصَارَعْتُهُ فَصَرَعْتُهُ؛ فَأَلْحَقَنِي  


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hakim:2356Abū al-Ḥusayn Muḥammad b. Muḥammad b. al-Ḥasan > ʿAlī b. ʿAbd al-ʿAzīz > Ibrāhīm b. ʿAbdullāh al-Harawī > Hushaym > ʿAbd al-Ḥamīd b. Jaʿfar al-Anṣārī from his father > Samurah b. Jundab

[Machine] My mother lost her father and came to the city, and the people proposed to her. She said, "I will not marry except to a man who takes care of this orphan for me." So a man from the Ansar married her. The Messenger of Allah ﷺ used to present the young men of the Ansar every year, and he would marry off those who reached the age of marriage. So I was presented one year, and a young man married me, and then divorced me. I said, "O Messenger of Allah, you have married me off, and he divorced me." He said, "Marry him." So I married him, and I prevailed over him.  

الحاكم:٢٣٥٦حَدَّثَنَا أَبُو الْحُسَيْنِ مُحَمَّدُ بْنُ مُحَمَّدِ بْنِ الْحَسَنِ ثنا عَلِيُّ بْنُ عَبْدِ الْعَزِيزِ ثنا إِبْرَاهِيمُ بْنُ عَبْدِ اللَّهِ الْهَرَوِيُّ ثنا هُشَيْمٌ ثنا عَبْدُ الْحَمِيدِ بْنُ جَعْفَرٍ الْأَنْصَارِيُّ عَنْ أَبِيهِ عَنْ سَمُرَةَ بْنِ جُنْدَبٍ قَالَ

أُيِّمَتْ أُمِّي وَقَدِمَتِ الْمَدِينَةَ فَخَطَبَهَا النَّاسُ فَقَالَتْ لَا أَتَزَوَّجُ إِلَّا بِرَجُلٍ يَكْفُلُ لِي هَذَا الْيَتِيمَ فَتَزَوَّجَهَا رَجُلٌ مِنَ الْأَنْصَارِ قَالَ فَكَانَ رَسُولُ اللَّهِ ﷺ «يَعْرِضُ غِلْمَانَ الْأَنْصَارِ فِي كُلِّ عَامٍ فَيُلْحِقُ مَنْ أَدْرَكَ مِنْهُمْ» قَالَ فَعُرِضْتُ عَامًا فَأَلْحَقَ غُلَامًا وَرَدَّنِي فَقُلْتُ يَا رَسُولَ اللَّهِ لَقَدْ أَلْحَقْتَهُ وَرَدَدْتَنِي وَلَوْ صَارَعْتُهُ لَصَرَعْتُهُ قَالَ «فَصَارِعْهُ» فَصَارَعْتُهُ فَصَرَعْتُهُ فَأَلْحَقَنِي  

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