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ahmad:5889Sulaymān b. Dāwud > Ismāʿīl > Muḥammad b. ʿAmr b. Ḥalḥalah > Muḥammad b. ʿAmr b. ʿAṭāʾ b. ʿAlqamah

[Machine] Salama ibn al-Azraq says, "Is that so, O Abu Abdullah?" He replied, "Yes, I say it." She said, "I heard Abu Huraira saying that a man from the family of Marwan had died, so women gathered to mourn him. Marwan said to Abd al-Malik, 'Get up, O son of al-Khattab, and forbid them from mourning.' Abu Huraira said, 'Leave them, for he has died as a member of the Prophet's family ﷺ .' So the women gathered to mourn him. Umar ibn al-Khattab stood up, forbade them, and expelled them. The Messenger of Allah ﷺ said, 'Leave them, O son of al-Khattab, for the eye sheds tears and the heart grieves, and vows are new.' Ibn Umar said, 'Did you hear this from Abu Huraira?' He said, 'Yes.' He asked, 'Did he narrate it from the Prophet ﷺ ?' He replied, 'Yes.' So may Allah and His Messenger know best."  

أحمد:٥٨٨٩حَدَّثَنَا سُلَيْمَانُ بْنُ دَاوُدَ أَخْبَرَنَا إِسْمَاعِيلُ أَخْبَرَنِي مُحَمَّدُ بْنُ عَمْرِو بْنِ حَلْحَلَةَ عَنْ مُحَمَّدِ بْنِ عَمْرِو بْنِ عَطَاءِ بْنِ عَلْقَمَةَ أَنَّهُ كَانَ جَالِسًا مَعَ ابْنِ عُمَرَ بِالسُّوقِ وَمَعَهُ سَلَمَةُ بْنُ الْأَزْرَقِ إِلَى جَنْبِهِ فَمُرَّ بِجِنَازَةٍ يَتْبَعُهَا بُكَاءٌ فَقَالَ عَبْدُ اللهِ بْنُ عُمَرَ لَوْ تَرَكَ أَهْلُ هَذَا الْمَيِّتِ الْبُكَاءَ لَكَانَ خَيْرًا لَمَيِّتِهِمْ فَقَالَ

سَلَمَةُ بْنُالْأَزْرَقِ تَقُولُ ذَلِكَ يَا أَبَا عَبْدِ الرَّحْمَنِ؟ قَالَ نَعَمْ أَقُولُهُ قَالَ إِنِّي سَمِعْتُ أَبَا هُرَيْرَةَ وَمَاتَ مَيِّتٌ مِنْ أَهْلِ مَرْوَانَ فَاجْتَمَعَ النِّسَاءُ يَبْكِينَ عَلَيْهِ فَقَالَ مَرْوَانُ قُمْ يَا عَبْدَ الْمَلِكِ فَانْهَهُنَّ أَنْ يَبْكِينَ فَقَالَ أَبُو هُرَيْرَةَ دَعْهُنَّ فَإِنَّهُ مَاتَ مَيِّتٌ مِنْ آلِ النَّبِيِّ ﷺ فَاجْتَمَعَ النِّسَاءُ يَبْكِينَ عَلَيْهِ فَقَامَ عُمَرُ بْنُ الْخَطَّابِ يَنْهَاهُنَّ وَيَطْرُدُهُنَّ فَقَالَ رَسُولُ اللهِ ﷺ دَعْهُنَّ يَا ابْنَ الْخَطَّابِ فَإِنَّ الْعَيْنَ دَامِعَةٌ وَالْفُؤَادَ مُصَابٌ وَإِنَّ الْعَهْدَ حَدِيثٌ فَقَالَ ابْنُ عُمَرَ أَنْتَ سَمِعْتَ هَذَا مِنْ أَبِي هُرَيْرَةَ؟ قَالَ نَعَمْ قَالَ يَأْثُرُهُ عَنِ النَّبِيِّ ﷺ؟ قَالَ نَعَمْ قَالَ فَاللهُ وَرَسُولُهُ أَعْلَمُ  


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ahmad:9293ʿAffān > Wuhayb > Hishām b. ʿUrwah > Wahbb. Kaysān > Muḥammad b. ʿAmr b. ʿAṭāʾ > Salamah b. al-Azraq

[Machine] His father, Abu Huraira, asked him, "Leave them, O Abu Abd al-Malik, for indeed, it (the procession) passed by the Messenger of Allah ﷺ with a funeral, and he cried over it. And I was with him, and Umar bin al-Khattab was with him. Umar scolded the women who were crying with the funeral, so the Messenger of Allah ﷺ said to him, 'Leave them, O son of al-Khattab, for indeed, the soul is saddened, and the eye sheds tears, and the promise (of death) is true.' He asked, 'Did you hear it?' He said, 'Yes.' He said, 'Allah and His Messenger know best.'"  

أحمد:٩٢٩٣حَدَّثَنَا عَفَّانُ قَالَ حَدَّثَنَا وُهَيْبٌ قَالَ حَدَّثَنَا هِشَامُ بْنُ عُرْوَةَ عَنْ وَهْبِ بْنِ كَيْسَانَ عَنْ مُحَمَّدِ بْنِ عَمْرِو بْنِ عَطَاءٍ عَنْ سَلَمَةَ بْنِ الْأَزْرَقِ أَنَّهُ كَانَ مَعَ عَبْدِ اللهِ بْنِ عُمَرَ جَالِسًا ذَاتَ يَوْمٍ بِالسُّوقِ فَمُرَّ بِجِنَازَةٍ يُبْكَى عَلَيْهَا فَعَابَ ذَلِكَ ابْنُ عُمَرَ وَانْتَهَرَهُمْ فَقَالَ لَهُ سَلَمَةُ بْنُ الْأَزْرَقِ لَا تَقُلْ ذَلِكَ يَا أَبَا عَبْدِ الرَّحْمَنِ فَأَشْهَدُ عَلَى أَبِي هُرَيْرَةَ لَسَمِعْتُهُ يَقُولُ وَتُوُفِّيَتِ امْرَأَةٌ مِنْ كَنَائِنِ مَرْوَانَ فَشَهِدَهَا مَرْوَانُ فَأَمَرَ بِالنِّسَاءِ اللَّاتِي يَبْكِينَ فَضُرِبْنَ فَقَالَ

لَهُ أَبُو هُرَيْرَةَ دَعْهُنَّ يَا أَبَا عَبْدِ الْمَلِكِ فَإِنَّهُ مُرَّ عَلَى رَسُولِ اللهِ ﷺ بِجِنَازَةٍ يُبْكَى عَلَيْهَا وَأَنَا مَعَهُ وَمَعَهُ عُمَرُ بْنُ الْخَطَّابِ فَانْتَهَرَ عُمَرُ اللَّاتِي يَبْكِينَ مَعَ الْجِنَازَةِ فَقَالَ لَهُ رَسُولُ اللهِ ﷺ دَعْهُنَّ يَا ابْنَ الْخَطَّابِ فَإِنَّ النَّفْسَ مُصَابَةٌ وَإِنَّ الْعَيْنَ دَامِعَةٌ وَإِنَّ الْعَهْدَ لَحَدِيثٌ قَالَ أَنْتَ سَمِعْتَهُ؟ فَقَالَ نَعَمْ قَالَ اللهُ وَرَسُولُهُ أَعْلَمُ  

bayhaqi:7159Abū Muḥammad ʿAbdullāh b. Yaḥyá b. ʿAbd al-Jabbār al-Sukkarī > Ismāʿīl b. Muḥammad al-Ṣaffār > Aḥmad b. Manṣūr al-Ramādī > ʿAbd al-Razzāq > Maʿmar > Hishām b. ʿUrwah > Wahbb. Kaysān > Muḥammad b. ʿAmr > Salamah

[Machine] Salama said, "Do not say that, O Abu Abdullah, for I bear witness on the authority of Abu Huraira that I heard him say: 'I accompanied the Prophet ﷺ once at a funeral procession along with Umar ibn Khattab and there were women crying. Umar restrained them and scolded them. The Prophet ﷺ said to Umar, 'Leave them, O Umar, for the eye weeps, the heart feels sorrow, and the tongue speaks out of habit.' They asked Umar, 'Did you hear him say this?' He replied, 'Yes.' Ibn Umar then said, 'By Allah, the Messenger of Allah knows better, for he said it twice.'"  

البيهقي:٧١٥٩أَخْبَرَنَا أَبُو مُحَمَّدٍ عَبْدُ اللهِ بْنُ يَحْيَى بْنِ عَبْدِ الْجَبَّارِ السُّكَّرِيُّ بِبَغْدَادَ أنبأ إِسْمَاعِيلُ بْنُ مُحَمَّدٍ الصَّفَّارُ ثنا أَحْمَدُ بْنُ مَنْصُورٍ الرَّمَادِيُّ ثنا عَبْدُ الرَّزَّاقِ أنبأ مَعْمَرٌ عَنْ هِشَامِ بْنِ عُرْوَةَ عَنْ وَهْبِ بْنِ كَيْسَانَ أَنَّ مُحَمَّدَ بْنَ عَمْرٍو أَخْبَرَهُ أَنَّ سَلَمَةَ بْنَ الْأَزْرَقِ كَانَ جَالِسًا عِنْدَ ابْنِ عُمَرَ بِالسُّوقِ فَمُرَّ بِجِنَازَةٍ يُبْكَى عَلَيْهَا قَالَ فَعَابَ ذَلِكَ ابْنُ عُمَرَ وَانْتَهَرَهُنَّ قَالَ فَقَالَ

سَلَمَةُ لَا تَقُلْ ذَلِكَ يَا أَبَا عَبْدِ الرَّحْمَنِ فَأَشْهَدُ عَلَى أَبِي هُرَيْرَةَ لَسَمِعْتُهُ يَقُولُ مُرَّ عَلَى النَّبِيِّ ﷺ بِجِنَازَةٍ وَأَنَا مَعَهُ وَمَعَهُ عُمَرُ بْنُ الْخَطَّابِ ؓ وَنِسَاءٌ يَبْكِينَ عَلَيْهَا فَزَبَرَهُنَّ عُمَرُ وَانْتَهَرَهُنَّ فَقَالَ لَهُ النَّبِيُّ ﷺ دَعْهُنَّ يَا عُمَرُ فَإِنَّ الْعَيْنَ دَامِعَةٌ وَالنَّفْسَ مُصَابَةٌ وَالْعَهْدَ حَدِيثٌ قَالُوا أَنْتَ سَمِعْتَهُ يَقُولُ هَذَا؟ قَالَ نَعَمْ قَالَ ابْنُ عُمَرَ فَاللهُ وَرَسُولُهُ أَعْلَمُ مَرَّتَيْنِ