[Machine] The Prophet Muhammad ﷺ proposed to a woman from his people, known as Sawda. She was a widow with five or six children from her deceased husband. The Prophet Muhammad ﷺ asked her, "What stops you from accepting me?" She replied, "By Allah, O Prophet of Allah, nothing stops me from you except that you are not the most beloved person to me, but I honor you by having these children stay with you day and night." He asked her, "Is there anything else that stops you from me?" She replied, "No, by Allah." The Prophet Muhammad ﷺ said to her, "May Allah have mercy on you. The best women rode on the backs of camels (referring to noble women of Quraysh) but you prefer your children over a husband with all your heart."
أَنَّ رَسُولَ اللهِ ﷺ خَطَبَ امْرَأَةً مِنْ قَوْمِهِ يُقَالُ لَهَا سَوْدَةُ وَكَانَتْ مُصْبِيَةً كَانَ لَهَا خَمْسَةُ صِبْيَةٍ أَوْ سِتَّةٌ مِنْ بَعْلٍ لَهَا مَاتَ فَقَالَ لَهَا رَسُولُ اللهِ ﷺ مَا يَمْنَعُكِ مِنِّي؟ قَالَتْ وَاللهِ يَا نَبِيَّ اللهِ مَا يَمْنَعُنِي مِنْكَ أَنْ لَا تَكُونَ أَحَبَّ الْبَرِيَّةِ إِلَيَّ وَلَكِنِّي أُكْرِمُكَ أَنْ يَضْغُوَ هَؤُلاءِ الصِّبْيَةَ عِنْدَ رَأْسِكَ بُكْرَةً وَعَشِيَّةً قَالَ فَهَلْ مَنَعَكِ مِنِّي شَيْءٌ غَيْرُ ذَلِكَ؟ قَالَتْ لَا وَاللهِ قَالَ لَهَا رَسُولُ اللهِ ﷺ يَرْحَمُكِ اللهُ إِنَّ خَيْرَ نِسَاءٍ رَكِبْنَ أَعْجَازَ الْإِبِلِ صَالِحُ نِسَاءِ قُرَيْشٍ أَحْنَاهُ عَلَى وَلَدٍ فِي صِغَرٍ وَأَرْعَاهُ عَلَى بَعْلٍ بِذَاتِ يَدٍ