[Machine] Marwan approached one day and found a man placing his face on a grave. He asked, "Do you know what you are doing?" He went towards him and found that he was Abu Ayyub. He said, "Yes, I came to the Messenger of Allah ﷺ and did not visit the Stone. I heard the Messenger of Allah ﷺ say, 'Do not cry for the deceased regarding their religion when their family members are taking care of it, but cry when someone other than their family is taking care of it.'"
أَقْبَلَ مَرْوَانُ يَوْمًا فَوَجَدَ رَجُلًا وَاضِعًا وَجْهَهُ عَلَى الْقَبْرِ فَقَالَ أَتَدْرِي مَا تَصْنَعُ؟ فَأَقْبَلَ عَلَيْهِ فَإِذَا هُوَ أَبُو أَيُّوبَ فَقَالَ نَعَمْ جِئْتُ رَسُولَ اللهِ ﷺ وَلَمْ آتِ الْحَجَرَ سَمِعْتُ رَسُولَ اللهِ ﷺ يَقُولُ لَا تَبْكُوا عَلَى الدِّينِ إِذَا وَلِيَهُ أَهْلُهُ وَلَكِنْ ابْكُوا عَلَيْهِ إِذَا وَلِيَهُ غَيْرُ أَهْلِهِ