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ahmad-zuhd:761ʿAbdullāh from my father > Sayyār > Jaʿfar > Thābit > Khaṭab Yazīd b. Muʿāwiyah > Abū al-Dardāʾ Āb.atah Faraddah > a man from Julasāʾ Yazīd Aṣlaḥak Allāh Taʾdhan Lī > Atazawwajahā > Aʿzab And Ylak > Taʾdhan Lī Aṣlaḥak Allāh > Naʿam Fakhaṭabahā Faʾankaḥahā Abū 117 al-Dardāʾ al-a man

[Machine] "Yazeed proposed to Abu Darda, but he declined and a man from the weak Muslims proposed to him, so he married him. Abu Darda then said, 'I looked at Darda, what do you think of Darda when her belts hung around her waist and she looked at houses with shining windows? Where is her faith in all of this on that day?'"  

الزهد لأحمد:٧٦١حَدَّثَنَا عَبْدُ اللَّهِ حَدَّثَنِي أَبِي حَدَّثَنَا سَيَّارٌ حَدَّثَنَا جَعْفَرٌ حَدَّثَنَا ثَابِتٌ قَالَ خَطَبَ يَزِيدُ بْنُ مُعَاوِيَةَ إِلَى أَبِي الدَّرْدَاءِ ابْنَتَهُ فَرَدَّهُ فَقَالَ رَجُلٌ مِنْ جُلَسَاءِ يَزِيدَ أَصْلَحَكَ اللَّهُ تَأْذَنُ لِي أَنْ أَتَزَوَّجَهَا؟ قَالَ أَعْزَبُ وَيْلَكَ قَالَ تَأْذَنُ لِي أَصْلَحَكَ اللَّهُ؟ قَالَ نَعَمْ فَخَطَبَهَا فَأَنْكَحَهَا أَبُو [117] الدَّرْدَاءِ الرَّجُلَ قَالَ فَسَارَ ذَلِكَ فِي النَّاسِ

أَنَّ يَزِيدَ خَطَبَ إِلَى أَبِي الدَّرْدَاءِ فَرَدَّهُ وَخَطَبَ إِلَيْهِ رَجُلٌ مِنْ ضُعَفَاءِ الْمُسْلِمِينَ فَأَنْكَحَهُ قَالَ فَقَالَ أَبُو الدَّرْدَاءِ إِنِّي نَظَرْتُ لِلدَّرْدَاءِ مَا ظَنُّكُمْ بِالدَّرْدَاءِ إِذَا قَامَتْ عَلَى رَأْسِهَا الْخِصْيَانُ وَنَظَرَتْ إِلَى بُيُوتٍ يَلْتَمِعُ فِيهَا بَصَرُهَا أَيْنَ دِينُهَا مِنْهَا يَوْمَئِذٍ