30. General Behavior

٣٠۔ كتاب التصرف العام

30.2 When a man has love for his brother he should tell him

٣٠۔٢ بَابُ إِذَا أَحَبَّ الرَّجُلُ أَخَاهُ فَلْيُعْلِمْهُ

adab:542

Al-Miqdam ibn Ma'dikarib reported that the Prophet, may Allah bless him and grant him peace, said, "When one of you has love for his brother, he should inform him that he loves him."  

الأدب المفرد:٥٤٢حَدَّثَنَا مُسَدَّدٌ قَالَ حَدَّثَنَا يَحْيَى بْنُ سَعِيدٍ عَنْ ثَوْرٍ قَالَ حَدَّثَنِي حَبِيبُ بْنُ عُبَيْدٍ عَنِ الْمِقْدَامِ بْنِ مَعْدِي كَرِبَ وَكَانَ قَدْ أَدْرَكَهُ قَالَ

قَالَ النَّبِيُّ ﷺ إِذَا أَحَبَّ أَحَدُكُمْ أَخَاهُ فَلْيُعْلِمْهُ أَنَّهُ أَحَبَّهُ  

adab:543

Mujahid said, "One of the Companions of the Prophet, may Allah bless him and grant him peace, met me and took hold of my shoulder from behind. He said, 'I love you,' and he went on to say, 'The One for whose sake I love you loves you.' He continued, 'If it had not been that the Messenger of Allah, may Allah bless him and grant him peace, said, "When a man has love for another man, he should tell him that he loves him," I would not have told you.'"  

الأدب المفرد:٥٤٣حَدَّثَنَا يَحْيَى بْنُ بِشْرٍ قَالَ حَدَّثَنَا قَبِيصَةُ قَالَ حَدَّثَنَا سُفْيَانُ عَنْ رَبَاحٍ عَنْ أَبِي عُبَيْدِ اللهِ

عَنْ مُجَاهِدٍ قَالَ لَقِيَنِي رَجُلٌ مِنْ أَصْحَابِ النَّبِيِّ ﷺ فَأَخَذَ بِمَنْكِبِي مِنْ وَرَائِي قَالَ أَمَا إِنِّي أُحِبُّكَ قَالَ أَحَبَّكَ الَّذِي أَحْبَبْتَنِي لَهُ فَقَالَ لَوْلاَ أَنَّ رَسُولَ اللهِ ﷺ قَالَ إِذَا أَحَبَّ الرَّجُلُ الرَّجُلَ فَلْيُخْبِرْهُ أَنَّهُ أَحَبَّهُ مَا أَخْبَرْتُكَ قَالَ ثُمَّ أَخَذَ يَعْرِضُ عَلَيَّ الْخِطْبَةَ قَالَ أَمَا إِنَّ عِنْدَنَا جَارِيَةً أَمَا إِنَّهَا عَوْرَاءُ  

adab:544

Anas reported that the Prophet, may Allah bless him and grant him peace, said, "When two men have love for one another, the better of them is the one who has the strongest love for his companion."  

الأدب المفرد:٥٤٤حَدَّثَنَا مُوسَى قَالَ حَدَّثَنَا مُبَارَكٌ قَالَ حَدَّثَنَا ثَابِتٌ عَنْ أَنَسٍ قَالَ

قَالَ النَّبِيُّ ﷺ مَا تَحَابَّا الرَّجُلاَنِ إِلاَّ كَانَ أَفْضَلُهُمَا أَشَدَّهُمَا حُبًّا لِصَاحِبِهِ