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abudawud:2144 – Aḥmad b. Yūsuf al-Muhallabī al-Naysābūrī > ʿUmar b. ʿAbdullāh b. Razīn > Sufyān b. Ḥusayn > Dāwud al-Warrāq > Saʿīd b. Ḥakīm from his father from his grandfather Muʿāwiyah al-Qushayrī

I went to the Messenger of Allah ﷺ and asked him: What do you say (command) about our wives? He replied: Give them food what you have for yourself, and clothe them by which you clothe yourself, and do not beat them, and do not revile them.  

أبو داود:٢١٤٤ – أَخْبَرَنِي أَحْمَدُ بْنُ يُوسُفَ الْمُهَلَّبِيُّ النَّيْسَابُورِيُّ حَدَّثَنَا عُمَرُ بْنُ عَبْدِ اللَّهِ بْنِ رَزِينٍ حَدَّثَنَا سُفْيَانُ بْنُ حُسَيْنٍ عَنْ دَاوُدَ الْوَرَّاقِ عَنْ سَعِيدِ بْنِ حَكِيمٍ عَنْ أَبِيهِ عَنْ جَدِّهِ مُعَاوِيَةَ الْقُشَيْرِيِّ قَالَ

أَتَيْتُ رَسُولَ اللَّهِ ﷺ قَالَ فَقُلْتُ مَا تَقُولُ فِي نِسَائِنَا قَالَ أَطْعِمُوهُنَّ مِمَّا تَأْكُلُونَ وَاكْسُوهُنَّ مِمَّا تَكْتَسُونَ وَلاَ تَضْرِبُوهُنَّ وَلاَ تُقَبِّحُوهُنَّ  

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I went to the Messenger of Allah ﷺ and asked him: What do you say (command) about our wives? He replied: Give them food what you have for yourself, and clothe them by which you clothe yourself, and do not beat them, and do not revile them. (Using translation from Abū Dāʾūd 2144)   

السيوطي:٣٣٨٩a –

"أَطْعِمُوهُنَّ مِمَّا تأكلون، واكُسُوهنَّ ممَّا تكتسون، ولا تضْرِبوهُنَّ ولا تُقَبِّحوهُنَّ" .  

[د] أبو داود عن بهز بن حكيم، عن أبيه، عن جده قال: قلت: يا رسول الله! ما تقول في نسائنا؟ قال: فذكره