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tirmidhi:1020Muḥammad b. Bashhār > Ṣafwān b. ʿĪsá > Bishr b. Rāfiʿ > ʿAbdullāh b. Sulaymān b. Junādah b. Abū Umayyah from his father from his grandfather > ʿUbādah b. al-Ṣāmit

"When the Messenger of Allah follows a corpse, he would not sit until (the deceased was) placed in the Lahd. A rabbi came upon him and said: 'This is what we do, O Muhammad'" He said: "So the Messenger of Allah sat, and he said: 'Differ from them.'"  

الترمذي:١٠٢٠حَدَّثَنَا مُحَمَّدُ بْنُ بَشَّارٍ حَدَّثَنَا صَفْوَانُ بْنُ عِيسَى عَنْ بِشْرِ بْنِ رَافِعٍ عَنْ عَبْدِ اللَّهِ بْنِ سُلَيْمَانَ بْنِ جُنَادَةَ بْنِ أَبِي أُمَيَّةَ عَنْ أَبِيهِ عَنْ جَدِّهِ عَنْ عُبَادَةَ بْنِ الصَّامِتِ قَالَ

كَانَ رَسُولُ اللَّهِ ﷺ إِذَا اتَّبَعَ الْجَنَازَةَ لَمْ يَقْعُدْ حَتَّى تُوضَعَ فِي اللَّحْدِ فَعَرَضَ لَهُ حَبْرٌ فَقَالَ هَكَذَا نَصْنَعُ يَا مُحَمَّدُ قَالَ فَجَلَسَ رَسُولُ اللَّهِ ﷺ وَقَالَ خَالِفُوهُمْ  

قَالَ أَبُو عِيسَى هَذَا حَدِيثٌ غَرِيبٌ وَبِشْرُ بْنُ رَافِعٍ لَيْسَ بِالْقَوِيِّ فِي الْحَدِيثِ

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ibnmajah:1545Muḥammad b. Bashhār And ʿUqbah b. Mukram > Ṣafwān b. ʿĪsá > Bishr b. Rāfiʿ > ʿAbdullāh b. Sulaymān b. Junādah b. Abū Umayyah from his father from his grandfather > ʿUbādah b. al-Ṣāmit

“When the Messenger of Allah ﷺ followed a funeral, he would not sit down until it had been placed in the niche-grave. A rabbi came to him and said: ‘This is what we do, O Muhammad!’ So the Messenger of Allah ﷺ sat down and said: ‘Be different from them.’”  

ابن ماجة:١٥٤٥حَدَّثَنَا مُحَمَّدُ بْنُ بَشَّارٍ وَعُقْبَةُ بْنُ مُكْرَمٍ قَالاَ حَدَّثَنَا صَفْوَانُ بْنُ عِيسَى حَدَّثَنَا بِشْرُ بْنُ رَافِعٍ عَنْ عَبْدِ اللَّهِ بْنِ سُلَيْمَانَ بْنِ جُنَادَةَ بْنِ أَبِي أُمَيَّةَ عَنْ أَبِيهِ عَنْ جَدِّهِ عَنْ عُبَادَةَ بْنِ الصَّامِتِ قَالَ

كَانَ رَسُولُ اللَّهِ ﷺ إِذَا اتَّبَعَ جِنَازَةً لَمْ يَقْعُدْ حَتَّى تُوضَعَ فِي اللَّحْدِ فَعَرَضَ لَهُ حَبْرٌ فَقَالَ هَكَذَا نَصْنَعُ يَا مُحَمَّدُ فَجَلَسَ رَسُولُ اللَّهِ ﷺ وَقَالَ خَالِفُوهُمْ  

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السيوطي:٣٩٠-٢٢b

"عن عبادة بن الصَّامت قال: كان رسول الله ﷺ إِذا اتّبعَ جِنازَةً لَمْ يَجْلسْ حتَّى تُوضَعَ فِى اللَّحْدِ، فَعَرضَ حَبْرٌ منَ اليَهُودِ فَقَالَ: هَكَذَا نَفْعَلُ، فَجلَسَ رَسُولُ الله ﷺ ، وَقَالَ: خَالفُوهُمْ".  

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