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tabarani:8968ʿAlī b. ʿAbd al-ʿAzīz > Abū Nuʿaym > ʿAbd al-Salām b. Ḥarb > ʿAṭāʾ b. al-Sāʾib > Abū al-Bakhtarī

[Machine] There was a conversation between a man from the companions of Abdullah and his wife. She said, "I do not feed you or your children except from the milk of my sheep." He swore not to eat anything from her milk. Then, a guest joined them and she fed him with the milk of her sheep. The man said, "I knew that I would not eat it." The woman said, "By Allah, if you do not eat, I will not eat." The guest said, "By Allah, if you both do not eat, I will not eat." So, they spent the night without having dinner. The incident reached Abdullah, so he went to Abdullah and asked him, "What happened between you and your family?" He said, "There was neither divorce, nor talaq (repudiation), nor zihar (when a husband likens his wife to a relative), but he narrated the whole story to him. Abdullah said to him, "I made an oath to you that if you return to your family, the first thing you should do is to eat from the milk of this sheep. And I believe that it is best for you to fulfill the oath you made."  

الطبراني:٨٩٦٨حَدَّثَنَا عَلِيُّ بْنُ عَبْدِ الْعَزِيزِ ثنا أَبُو نُعَيْمٍ ثنا عَبْدُ السَّلَامِ بْنُ حَرْبٍ عَنْ عَطَاءِ بْنِ السَّائِبِ عَنْ أَبِي الْبَخْتَرِيِّ قَالَ

كَانَ بَيْنَ رَجُلٍ مِنْ أَصْحَابِ عَبْدِ اللهِ وَبَيْنَ امْرَأَتِهِ كَلَامٌ فَقَالَتْ مَا أُدْمُكَ وَأُدْمُ عِيَالِكَ إِلَّا مِنْ لَبَنِ شَاتِي فَأَقْسَمَ أَنْ لَا يَأْكُلَ مِنْ لَبَنِهَا شَيْئًا فَضَافَهُمْ ضَيْفٌ فَأَدْمَتْ لَهُ بِلَبَنِ شَاتِهَا فَقَالَ الرَّجُلُ لَقَدْ عَلِمْتِ أَنِّي لَا آكُلُهُ فَقَالَتِ الْمَرْأَةُ وَاللهِ لَئِنْ لَمْ تَأْكُلْ لَا آكُلُ فَقَالَ الضَّيْفُ وَاللهِ لَئِنْ لَمْ تَأْكُلَا لَا آكُلُ فَبَاتُوا بِغَيْرِ عَشَاءٍ فَنَمَى الْحَدِيثُ إِلَى عَبْدِ اللهِ فَجَاءَ إِلَى عَبْدِ اللهِ فَقَالَ لَهُ عَبْدُ اللهِ «مَا الَّذِي حَالَ بَيْنَكَ وَبَيْنَ أَهْلِكَ؟» قَالَ أَمَا إِنَّهُ لَمْ يَكُنْ طَلَاقٌ وَلَا ظِهَارٌ وَلَا إِيلَاءٌ ثُمَّ قَصَّ عَلَيْهِ الْقِصَّةَ فَقَالَ لَهُ عَبْدُ اللهِ «أَقْسَمْتُ عَلَيْكَ إِذَا رَجَعْتَ إِلَى أَهْلِكَ أَنْ يَكُونَ أَوَّلَ مَا تَصْنَعُ أَنْ تَأْكُلَ مِنْ لَبَنِ هَذِهِ الشَّاةِ وَقَدْ أَرَى أَنَّ أَطْيَبَ لِنَفْسِكَ أَنْ تُكَفِّرَ عَنْ يَمِينِكَ»