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tabarani:21416Muḥammad b. al-Layth al-Jawharī And al-Qāsim b. ʿAbbād al-Khaṭṭābī > Muḥammad b. Sulaymān Lūwayn > Muḥammad b. Jābir > Ḥabīb b. Abū Thābit > ʿĀmir al-Shaʿbī

[Machine] I asked Fatimah bint Qays how she was doing. She said, "My husband divorced me three times. So I went to the Messenger of Allah ﷺ and said, 'My relatives have claimed that I have no shelter or expenditure.' He said, 'Go and prepare yourself in the house of Ibn Umm Maktum.' He was blind." She said, "Abu Al-Jahm ibn Hudhayfah proposed to me, and after him Muawiyah proposed to me after the 'iddah had expired. So I consulted the Messenger of Allah ﷺ and he said, 'As for Abu Jahm, he is harsh to women, and as for Muawiyah, he is poor and has nothing. But where are you in regards to Usamah?' I said, 'Should I marry Usamah?' He said, 'Yes, marry Usamah.'"  

الطبراني:٢١٤١٦حَدَّثَنَا مُحَمَّدُ بْنُ اللَّيْثِ الْجَوْهَرِيُّ وَالْقَاسِمُ بْنُ عَبَّادٍ الْخَطَّابِيُّ قَالَا ثنا مُحَمَّدُ بْنُ سُلَيْمَانَ لُوَيْنَ ثنا مُحَمَّدُ بْنُ جَابِرٍ عَنْ حَبِيبِ بْنِ أَبِي ثَابِتٍ عَنْ عَامِرٍ الشَّعْبِيِّ قَالَ

سَأَلْتُ فَاطِمَةَ بِنْتَ قَيْسٍ كَيْفَ كَانَ أَمْرُهَا؟ قَالَتْ طَلَّقَنِي زَوْجِي ثَلَاثًا جَمِيعًا فَأَتَيْتُ رَسُولَ اللهِ ﷺ فَقُلْتُ زَعَمَ أَحْمَائِي أَنَّهُ لَيْسَ لِي سُكْنَى وَلَا نَفَقَةً قَالَ «صَدَقُوا اذْهَبِي فَاعْتَدِّي فِي بَيْتِ ابْنِ أُمِّ مَكْتُومٍ» وَكَانَ أَعْمَى قَالَتْ فَخَطَبَهَا أَبُو الْجَهْمِ بْنُ حُذَيْفَةَ وَمِنْ بَعْدِهِ مُعَاوِيَةُ بَعْدَ انْقِضَاءِ الْعِدَّةِ فَاسْتَشَارَتْ رَسُولَ اللهِ ﷺ فَقَالَ «أَمَا أَبُو جَهْمٍ فَضَرُوبٌ لِلنِّسَاءِ وَأَمَّا مُعَاوِيَةُ فَمُمَلَّقٌ يَعْنِي مُفْلِسَ لَا يَمْلِكُ شَيْئًا وَلَكِنْ أَيْنَ أَنْتِ عَنْ أُسَامَةَ؟» قُلْتُ أَنْكِحُ أُسَامَةَ؟ قَالَ «نَعَمِ انْكِحِي أُسَامَةَ»