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muslim:1460eAbū Kurayb Muḥammad b. al-ʿAlāʾ > Ḥafṣ / Ibn Ghiyāth > ʿAbd al-Wāḥid b. Ayman > Abū Bakr b. ʿAbd al-Raḥman b. al-Ḥārith b. Hishām

If you desire that I spend a week with you, I shall have to spend a week with my (other) wives, and if spend a week with you, I shall have to spend a week with my (other) wives.  

مسلم:١٤٦٠eحَدَّثَنِي أَبُو كُرَيْبٍ مُحَمَّدُ بْنُ الْعَلاَءِ حَدَّثَنَا حَفْصٌ يَعْنِي ابْنَ غِيَاثٍ عَنْ عَبْدِ الْوَاحِدِ بْنِ أَيْمَنَ عَنْ أَبِي بَكْرِ بْنِ عَبْدِ الرَّحْمَنِ بْنِ الْحَارِثِ بْنِ هِشَامٍ

عَنْ أُمِّ سَلَمَةَ ذَكَرَ أَنَّﷺ تَزَوَّجَهَا وَذَكَرَ أَشْيَاءَ هَذَا فِيهِ قَالَ إِنْ شِئْتِ أَنْ أُسَبِّعَ لَكِ وَأُسَبِّعَ لِنِسَائِي وَإِنْ سَبَّعْتُ لَكِ سَبَّعْتُ لِنِسَائِي  


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bayhaqi:14759Abū Muḥammad ʿAbdullāh b. Yūsuf > Abū ʿAbdullāh Muḥammad b. Yazīd And ʾAbū Aḥmad Muḥammad b. ʿĪsá > Ibrāhīm b. Muḥammad b. Sufyān > Muslim b. al-Ḥajjāj > Abū Kurayb Muḥammad b. al-ʿAlāʾ > Ḥafṣ / Ibn Ghiyāth > ʿAbd al-Wāḥid b. Ayman > Abū Bakr b. ʿAbd al-Raḥman b. al-Ḥārith b. Hishām > Um Salamah Dhakar

If you desire that I spend a week with you, I shall have to spend a week with my (other) wives, and if spend a week with you, I shall have to spend a week with my (other) wives. (Using translation from Muslim 1460e)   

البيهقي:١٤٧٥٩أَخْبَرَنَا أَبُو مُحَمَّدٍ عَبْدُ اللهِ بْنُ يُوسُفَ أنا أَبُو عَبْدِ اللهِ مُحَمَّدُ بْنُ يَزِيدَ وَأَبُو أَحْمَدَ مُحَمَّدُ بْنُ عِيسَى قَالَا نا إِبْرَاهِيمُ بْنُ مُحَمَّدِ بْنِ سُفْيَانَ نا مُسْلِمُ بْنُ الْحَجَّاجِ حَدَّثَنِي أَبُو كُرَيْبٍ مُحَمَّدُ بْنُ الْعَلَاءِ نا حَفْصٌ يَعْنِي ابْنَ غِيَاثٍ عَنْ عَبْدِ الْوَاحِدِ بْنِ أَيْمَنَ عَنْ أَبِي بَكْرِ بْنِ عَبْدِ الرَّحْمَنِ بْنِ الْحَارِثِ بْنِ هِشَامٍ عَنْ أُمِّ سَلَمَةَ ؓ ذَكَرَ أَنَّ

رَسُولَ اللهِ ﷺ تَزَوَّجَهَا وَذَكَرَ أَشْيَاءَ هَذَا فِيهِ قَالَ إِنْ شِئْتِ أَنْ أُسَبِّعَ لَكِ وَأُسَبِّعَ لِنِسَائِي وَإِنْ سَبَّعْتُ لَكِ سَبَّعْتُ لِنِسَائِي هَكَذَا  

أَخْرَجَهُ مُسْلِمٌ فِي الصَّحِيحِ