ذِكْرُ الزَّجْرِ عَنْ أَنْ يَلْبَسَ الْمَرْءُ خَاتَمَ الذَّهَبِ، إِذْ لُبْسُهُ فِي الدُّنْيَا لِلنِّسَاءِ دُونَ الرِّجَالِ
[Machine] A man came from Najran to the Messenger of Allah ﷺ with a gold ring. The Messenger of Allah ﷺ turned away from him without asking him about anything. The man went back to his wife and told her what happened. She said to him, "You have a matter, so go back to the Messenger of Allah ﷺ and throw the ring at him." When he sought permission to enter, he was granted permission and he greeted the Messenger of Allah ﷺ who returned the greeting. The man said, "O Messenger of Allah, you turned away from me." The Messenger of Allah ﷺ said, "Indeed, you came to me with a firebrand in your hand." The man said, "O Messenger of Allah, I have come with many firebrands, and I have also brought jewelry from Bahrain." Then the Prophet ﷺ said, "You did not bring anything that would make us rich except for what could be used as projectiles in battle. But it is the worldly provision." The man said, "Excuse me to your companions, may they not think that you have been displeased with me for anything." So the Messenger of Allah ﷺ excused him and informed the people that the only reason he turned away was because of the man's ring.
أَنَّ رَجُلًا قَدِمَ مِنْ نَجْرَانَ إِلَى رَسُولِ اللَّهِ ﷺ وَعَلَيْهِ خَاتَمٌ مِنْ ذَهَبٍ فَأَعْرَضَ عَنْهُ رَسُولُ اللَّهِ ﷺ وَلَمْ يَسْأَلْهُ عَنْ شَيْءٍ فَرَجَعَ الرَّجُلُ إِلَى امْرَأَتِهِ فَحَدَّثَهَا فَقَالَتْ إِنَّ لَكَ شَأْنًا فَارْجِعْ إِلَى رَسُولِ اللَّهِ ﷺ وَأَلْقِ الْخَاتَمَ فَلَمَّا اسْتَأْذَنَ أَذِنَ لَهُ وَسَلَّمَ عَلَى رَسُولِ اللَّهِ ﷺ فَرَدَّ عَلَيْهِ السَّلَامَ فَقَالَ يَا رَسُولَ اللَّهِ أَعْرَضْتَ عَنِّي فَقَالَ رَسُولُ اللَّهِ ﷺ «إِنَّكَ جِئْتَنِيَ وَفِي يَدِكَ جَمْرَةٌ مِنْ نَارٍ» فَقَالَ يَا رَسُولَ اللَّهِ لَقَدْ جِئْتُ إِذًا بِجَمْرٍ كَثِيرٍ وَكَانَ قَدْ قَدِمَ بِحُلِيٍّ مِنَ الْبَحْرَيْنِ فَقَالَ النَّبِيُّ ﷺ «مَا جِئْتَ بِهِ غَيْرُ مُغْنٍ عَنَّا شَيْئًا إِلَّا مَا أَغْنَتْ عَنَّا حِجَارَةُ الْحَرَّةِ وَلَكِنَّهُ مَتَاعُ الْحَيَاةِ الدُّنْيَا» فَقَالَ الرَّجُلُ اعْذُرْنِي فِي أَصْحَابِكَ لَا يَظُنُّونَ أَنَّكَ سَخِطْتَ عَلَيَّ بِشَيْءٍ فَقَامَ رَسُولُ اللَّهِ ﷺ فَعَذَرَهُ وَأَخْبَرَ أَنَّ الَّذِي كَانَ مِنْهُ إِنَّمَا كَانَ لِخَاتَمِهِ