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bukhari:5187Abū Nuʿaym > Sufyān > ʿAbdullāh b. Dīnār > Ibn ʿUmar

During the lifetime of the Prophet ﷺ we used to avoid chatting leisurely and freely with our wives lest some Divine inspiration might be revealed concerning us. But when the Prophet ﷺ had died, we started chatting leisurely and freely (with them).  

البخاري:٥١٨٧حَدَّثَنَا أَبُو نُعَيْمٍ حَدَّثَنَا سُفْيَانُ عَنْ عَبْدِ اللَّهِ بْنِ دِينَارٍ عَنِ ابْنِ عُمَرَ ؓ قَالَ

كُنَّا نَتَّقِي الْكَلاَمَ وَالاِنْبِسَاطَ إِلَى نِسَائِنَا عَلَى عَهْدِ النَّبِيِّ ﷺ هَيْبَةَ أَنْ يُنْزَلَ فِينَا شَىْءٌ فَلَمَّا تُوُفِّيَ النَّبِيُّ ﷺ تَكَلَّمْنَا وَانْبَسَطْنَا  


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ibnmajah:1632Muḥammad b. Bashhār > ʿAbd al-Raḥman b. Mahdī > Sufyān > ʿAbdullāh b. Dīnār > Ibn ʿUmar

“We used to be guarded in our speech even with our wives at the time of the Messenger of Allah ﷺ, fearing that Qur’an may be revealed amongst us, but when the Messenger of Allah ﷺ died, we began to speak freely.”  

ابن ماجة:١٦٣٢حَدَّثَنَا مُحَمَّدُ بْنُ بَشَّارٍ أَخْبَرَنَا عَبْدُ الرَّحْمَنِ بْنُ مَهْدِيٍّ حَدَّثَنَا سُفْيَانُ عَنْ عَبْدِ اللَّهِ بْنِ دِينَارٍ عَنِ ابْنِ عُمَرَ قَالَ

كُنَّا نَتَّقِي الْكَلاَمَ وَالاِنْبِسَاطَ إِلَى نِسَائِنَا عَلَى عَهْدِ رَسُولِ اللَّهِ ﷺ مَخَافَةَ أَنْ يُنْزَلَ فِينَا الْقُرْآنُ فَلَمَّا مَاتَ رَسُولُ اللَّهِ ﷺ تَكَلَّمْنَا  

ahmad:5284ʿAbd al-Raḥman > Sufyān > ʿAbdullāh b. Dīnār > Ibn ʿUmar

“We used to be guarded in our speech even with our wives at the time of the Messenger of Allah ﷺ, fearing that Qur’an may be revealed amongst us, but when the Messenger of Allah ﷺ died, we began to speak freely.” (Using translation from Ibn Mājah 1632)  

أحمد:٥٢٨٤حَدَّثَنَا عَبْدُ الرَّحْمَنِ عَنْ سُفْيَانَ عَنْ عَبْدِ اللهِ بْنِ دِينَارٍ عَنِ ابْنِ عُمَرَ قَالَ

كُنَّا نَتَّقِي كَثِيرًا مِنَ الْكَلَامِ وَالِانْبِسَاطِ إِلَى نِسَائِنَا عَلَى عَهْدِ رَسُولِ اللهِ ﷺ مَخَافَةَ أَنْ يَنْزِلَ فِينَا الْقُرْآنُ فَلَمَّا مَاتَ رَسُولُ اللهِ ﷺ تَكَلَّمْنَا