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bayhaqi:14591Abū Ḥāzim al-Ḥāfiẓ > Abū al-Ḥasan Muḥammad b. Aḥmad b. Ḥamzah al-Harawī > Aḥmad b. Najdah > Saʿīd b. Manṣūr > Sufyān > Ibn Jurayj

[Machine] Salman married Abu Qura Kandi. When he entered upon her, he said, "O this one, indeed the Messenger of Allah ﷺ advised me that if Allah decreed for you to get married, then the first thing you should gather upon is obedience." She replied, "Surely, the sitting of a person is obeyed." So he said to his people, "We shall pray and supplicate." They did so and he saw a covered house. He said, "What is wrong with your house? Is the Kaaba in Kanda?" They replied, "It is not wrong and the Kaaba has not been moved to Kanda." He said, "I will not enter until every curtain is taken apart except for the one on this door." It was narrated to us concerning the dislike of that from Umar Ibn Al-Khattab, and it is similar that it would be due to the extravagance in it. And Allah knows best.  

البيهقي:١٤٥٩١أَخْبَرَنَا أَبُو حَازِمٍ الْحَافِظُ أنا أَبُو الْحَسَنِ مُحَمَّدُ بْنُ أَحْمَدَ بْنِ حَمْزَةَ الْهَرَوِيُّ أنا أَحْمَدُ بْنُ نَجْدَةَ نا سَعِيدُ بْنُ مَنْصُورٍ نا سُفْيَانُ عَنِ ابْنِ جُرَيْجٍ قَالَ

تَزَوَّجَ سَلْمَانُ إِلَى أَبِي قُرَّةَ الْكِنْدِيِّ فَلَمَّا دَخَلَ عَلَيْهَا قَالَ يَا هَذِهِ إِنَّ رَسُولَ اللهِ ﷺ أَوْصَانِي إِنْ قَضَى اللهُ لَكَ أَنْ تَزَوَّجَ فَيَكُونُ أَوَّلَ مَا يَجْتَمِعَانِ عَلَيْهِ طَاعَةٌ فَقَالَتْ إِنَّكَ جَلَسْتَ مَجْلِسَ الْمَرْءِ يُطَاعُ أَمْرُهُ فَقَالَ لَهَا قُومِي نُصَلِّي وَنَدْعُو فَفَعَلَا فَرَأَى بَيْتًا مُسْتَتِرًا فَقَالَ مَا بَالُ بَيْتِكُمْ مَحْمُومٌ أَوَ تَحَوَّلَتِ الْكَعْبَةُ فِي كِنْدَةَ؟ فَقَالُوا لَيْسَ بِمَحْمُومٍ وَلَمْ تَتَحَوَّلِ الْكَعْبَةُ فِي كِنْدَةَ فَقَالَ لَا أَدْخُلُهُ حَتَّى تُهْتَكَ كُلُّ سِتْرٍ إِلَّا سِتْرًا عَلَى الْبَابِ هَذَا مُنْقَطِعٌ وَرُوِّينَا فِي كَرَاهِيَةِ ذَلِكَ عَنْ عُمَرَ بْنِ الْخَطَّابِ ؓ وَيُشْبِهُ أَنْ يَكُونَ ذَلِكَ لِمَا فِيهِ مِنَ السَّرَفِ وَاللهُ أَعْلَمُ