[Machine] Bint Qais says that her husband divorced her three times and the Messenger of Allah ﷺ did not grant her a place to stay or provide for her. She said, the Messenger of Allah ﷺ said to me, "If you want, I can give you permission to remarry." So Muawiyah, Abu Jahlm, and Usamah bin Zaid proposed to her. The Messenger of Allah ﷺ said, "As for Muawiyah, he is a poor man who has no wealth. And as for Abu Jahlm, he is a man who beats women. But as for Usamah, she said, extending her hand this way and that, "this is Usamah, this is Usamah." So the Messenger of Allah ﷺ said to her, "Obedience to Allah and obedience to His Messenger is better for you." She said, "So I married him and I was delighted with him."
بِنْتَ قَيْسٍ تَقُولُ إِنَّ زَوْجَهَا طَلَّقَهَا ثَلَاثًا فَلَمْ يَجْعَلْ لَهَا رَسُولُ اللهِ ﷺ سُكْنَى وَلَا نَفَقَةَ قَالَتْ قَالَ لِي رَسُولُ اللهِ ﷺ إِذَا حَلَلْتِ فَآذِنِينِي فَآذَنَتْهُ فَخَطَبَهَا مُعَاوِيَةُ وَأَبُو جَهْمٍ وَأُسَامَةُ بْنُ زَيْدٍ ؓ فَقَالَ رَسُولُ اللهِ ﷺ أَمَّا مُعَاوِيَةُ فَرَجُلٌ تَرِبٌ لَا مَالَ لَهُ وَأَمَّا أَبُو جَهْمٍ فَرَجُلٌ ضَرَّابٌ لِلنِّسَاءِ وَلَكِنْ أُسَامَةُ فَقَالَتْ بِيَدِهَا هَكَذَا أُسَامَةُ أُسَامَةُ قَالَ فَقَالَ لَهَا رَسُولُ اللهِ ﷺ طَاعَةُ اللهِ وَطَاعَةُ رَسُولِهِ خَيْرٌ لَكِ قَالَتْ فَتَزَوَّجْتُهُ فَاغْتَبَطْتُ بِهِ
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