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ahmad:6739Mūsá b. Dāwud > Ibn Lahīʿah > Yazīd b. Abū Ḥabīb > Qayṣar al-Tujībī > ʿAbdullāh b. ʿAmr b. al-ʿĀṣī

[Machine] We were with the Prophet ﷺ when a young man came and asked, "O Messenger of Allah, can I kiss while fasting?" The Prophet ﷺ replied, "No." Then an elderly man came and asked, "Can I kiss while fasting?" The Prophet ﷺ replied, "Yes." Some of us looked at each other, and the Messenger of Allah ﷺ said, "I know why you looked at each other. The old man has more control over himself."  

أحمد:٦٧٣٩حَدَّثَنَا مُوسَى بْنُ دَاوُدَ حَدَّثَنَا ابْنُ لَهِيعَةَ عَنْ يَزِيدَ بْنِ أَبِي حَبِيبٍ عَنْ قَيْصَرَ التُّجِيبِيِّ عَنْ عَبْدِ اللهِ بْنِ عَمْرِو بْنِ الْعَاصِي قَالَ

كُنَّا عِنْدَ النَّبِيِّ ﷺ فَجَاءَ شَابٌّ فَقَالَ يَا رَسُولَ اللهِ أُقَبِّلُ وَأَنَا صَائِمٌ؟ قَالَ لَا فَجَاءَ شَيْخٌ فَقَالَ أُقَبِّلُ وَأَنَا صَائِمٌ؟ قَالَ نَعَمْ قَالَ فَنَظَرَ بَعْضُنَا إِلَى بَعْضٍ فَقَالَ رَسُولُ اللهِ ﷺ قَدْ عَلِمْتُ لِمَ نَظَرَ بَعْضُكُمْ إِلَى بَعْضٍ إِنَّ الشَّيْخَ يَمْلِكُ نَفْسَهُ  


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ahmad:7054Mūsá b. Dāwud > Ibn Lahīʿah > Yazīd b. Abū Ḥabīb > Qayṣar al-Tujībī > ʿAbdullāh b. ʿAmr b. al-ʿĀṣī

[Machine] We were with the Prophet ﷺ when a young man suddenly came and said, "O Messenger of Allah, can I kiss while I am fasting?" He replied, "No." Then an old man came and asked, "O Messenger of Allah, can I kiss while I am fasting?" He answered, "Yes." At this, some of us looked at each other, and the Messenger of Allah ﷺ said, "I knew that some of you were looking at each other. Surely, the elderly man has control over himself."  

أحمد:٧٠٥٤حَدَّثَنَا مُوسَى بْنُ دَاوُدَ حَدَّثَنَا ابْنُ لَهِيعَةَ عَنْ يَزِيدَ بْنِ أَبِي حَبِيبٍ عَنْ قَيْصَرَ التُّجِيبِيِّ عَنْ عَبْدِ اللهِ بْنِ عَمْرِو بْنِ الْعَاصِي قَالَ

كُنَّا عِنْدَ النَّبِيِّ ﷺفَجَاءَ شَابٌّ فَقَالَ يَا رَسُولَ اللهِ أُقَبِّلُ وَأَنَا صَائِمٌ؟ فَقَالَ لَا فَجَاءَ شَيْخٌ فَقَالَ يَا رَسُولَ اللهِ أُقَبِّلُ وَأَنَا صَائِمٌ؟ قَالَ نَعَمْ فَنَظَرَ بَعْضُنَا إِلَى بَعْضٍ فَقَالَ رَسُولُ اللهِ ﷺ قَدْ عَلِمْتُ نَظَرَ بَعْضِكُمْ إِلَى بَعْضٍ إِنَّ الشَّيْخَ يَمْلِكُ نَفْسَهُ