[Machine] "Aisha, the wife of the Prophet Muhammad ﷺ , said, 'When news of Ja'far's death reached us, we observed sadness in the Messenger of Allah ﷺ . A man then entered and said, 'O Messenger of Allah, women have overcome us and posed a temptation for us.' He replied, 'Go back to them and silence them.' The man left and came back repeating the same statement. The Prophet said, 'Tell him that perhaps pretentiousness harms one's family.' The man went back and silenced them, and if they disobeyed, he would reprimand them with harsh words.' Aisha said, 'I said to myself, may Allah keep you far away. By Allah, you did not spare yourself and you are not obedient to the Messenger of Allah ﷺ .' She said, 'I knew that he was not capable of silencing them by harsh reprimands.'"  

عَنْ عَائِشَةَ زَوْجِ النَّبِيِّ ﷺ قَالَتْ لَمَّا أَتَى قَتْلُ جَعْفَرٍ عَرَفْنَا فِي رَسُولِ اللهِ ﷺ الْحُزْنَ قَالَتْ فَدَخَلَ عَلَيْهِ رَجُلٌ فَقَالَ يَا رَسُولَ اللهِ إِنَّ النِّسَاءَ قَدْ غَلَبْنَنَا وَفَتَنَّنَا قَالَ فَارْجِعْ إِلَيْهِنَّ فَأَسْكِتْهُنَّ قَالَ فَذَهَبَ ثُمَّ رَجَعَ فَقَالَ لَهُ مِثْلَ ذَلِكَ قَالَ يَقُولُ وَرُبَّمَا ضَرَّ التَّكَلُّفُ أَهْلَهُ قَالَ فَاذْهَبْ فَأَسْكِتْهُنَّ فَإِنْ أَبْيَنَ فَاحْثُ فِي أَفْوَاهِهِنَّ التُّرَابَ قَالَتْ قُلْتُ فِي نَفْسِي أَبْعَدَكَ اللهُ فَوَاللهِ مَا تَرَكْتَ نَفْسَكَ وَمَا أَنْتَ بِمُطِيعٍ رَسُولَ اللهِ ﷺ قَالَتْ عَرَفْتُ أَنَّهُ لَا يَقْدِرُ عَلَى أَنْ يَحْثُوَ فِي أَفْوَاهِهِنَّ التُّرَابَ