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ahmad:25254Abū ʿĀmir And Surayj / Ibn al-Nuʿmān > Fulayḥ > ʿAbdullāh b. ʿAbd al-Raḥman b. Maʿmar > Abū Yūnus a freed slave of ʿĀʾishah > ʿĀʾishah

[Machine] A man sought permission from the Prophet ﷺ and said, "What a bad son of the Ashirah tribe he is." When the Prophet ﷺ allowed him to enter, he treated him kindly and showed him respect. Then the man left and another man sought permission and the Prophet ﷺ said, "What a good son of the Ashirah tribe he is." When he entered, the Prophet ﷺ did not show him the same hospitality and respect as he had shown the previous man. When he left, I said to the Prophet ﷺ, "O Messenger of Allah, the first man sought your permission and you did not say what you said about him to the second man. You treated the first man kindly and showed him respect, but you did not do the same for the second man. Why did you do that?" The Prophet ﷺ replied, "O Aisha, among the worst of people are those who are cautious with their vulgarity."  

أحمد:٢٥٢٥٤حَدَّثَنَا أَبُو عَامِرٍ وَسُرَيْجٌ يَعْنِي ابْنَ النُّعْمَانِ قَالَا حَدَّثَنَا فُلَيْحٌ عَنْ عَبْدِ اللهِ بْنِ عَبْدِ الرَّحْمَنِ بْنِ مَعْمَرٍ عَنْ أَبِي يُونُسَ مَوْلَى عَائِشَةَ عَنْ عَائِشَةَ قَالَتْ

اسْتَأْذَنَ رَجُلٌ عَلَى النَّبِيِّ ﷺ فَقَالَ بِئْسَ ابْنُ الْعَشِيرَةِ فَلَمَّا دَخَلَ هَشَّ لَهُ رَسُولُ اللهِ ﷺ وَانْبَسَطَ إِلَيْهِ ثُمَّ خَرَجَ فَاسْتَأْذَنَ رَجُلٌ آخَرُ فَقَالَ النَّبِيُّ ﷺ نِعْمَ ابْنُ الْعَشِيرَةِ فَلَمَّا دَخَلَ لَمْ يَنْبَسِطْ إِلَيْهِ كَمَا انْبَسَطَ إِلَى الْآخَرِ وَلَمْ يَهَشَّ لَهُ كَمَا هَشَّ فَلَمَّا خَرَجَ قُلْتُ يَا رَسُولَ اللهِ اسْتَأْذَنَ فُلَانٌ فَقُلْتَ لَهُ مَا قُلْتَ ثُمَّ هَشَشْتَ لَهُ وَانْبَسَطْتَ إِلَيْهِ وَقُلْتَ لِفُلَانٍ مَا قُلْتَ وَلَمْ أَرَكَ صَنَعْتَ بِهِ مَا صَنَعْتَ لِلْآخَرِ؟ فَقَالَ يَا عَائِشَةُ إِنَّ مِنْ شِرَارِ النَّاسِ مَنْ اتُّقِيَ لِفُحْشِهِ