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abudawud:3130ʿUthmān b. Abū Shaybah > Jarīr > Manṣūr > Ibrāhīm > Yazīd b. Aws

I entered upon AbuMusa while he was at the point of death. His wife began to weep or was going to weep. AbuMusa said to her: Did you not hear what the Messenger of Allah ﷺ said? She said: Yes. The narrator said: She then kept silence. When AbuMusa died, Yazid said: I met the woman and asked her: What did AbuMusa mean when he said to you: Did you not hear what the Messenger of Allah ﷺ and the you kept silence? She replied: The Messenger of Allah ﷺ said: He who shaves (his head), shouts and tears his clothing does not belong to us.  

أبو داود:٣١٣٠حَدَّثَنَا عُثْمَانُ بْنُ أَبِي شَيْبَةَ حَدَّثَنَا جَرِيرٌ عَنْ مَنْصُورٍ عَنْ إِبْرَاهِيمَ عَنْ يَزِيدَ بْنِ أَوْسٍ قَالَ

دَخَلْتُ عَلَى أَبِي مُوسَى وَهُوَ ثَقِيلٌ فَذَهَبَتِ امْرَأَتُهُ لِتَبْكِي أَوْ تَهُمَّ بِهِ فَقَالَ لَهَا أَبُو مُوسَى أَمَا سَمِعْتِ مَا قَالَ رَسُولُ اللَّهِ ﷺ قَالَتْ بَلَى قَالَ فَسَكَتَتْ فَلَمَّا مَاتَ أَبُو مُوسَى قَالَ يَزِيدُ لَقِيتُ الْمَرْأَةَ فَقُلْتُ لَهَا مَا قَوْلُ أَبِي مُوسَى لَكِ أَمَا سَمِعْتِ مَا قَالَ رَسُولُ اللَّهِ ﷺ ثُمَّ سَكَتِّ قَالَتْ قَالَ رَسُولُ اللَّهِ ﷺ لَيْسَ مِنَّا مَنْ حَلَقَ وَمَنْ سَلَقَ وَمَنْ خَرَقَ  


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tabarani:21991Muḥammad b. ʿAbdullāh al-Ḥaḍramī > ʿUthmān b. Abū Shaybah > Jarīr > Manṣūr > Ibrāhīm > Yazīd b. Aws

[Machine] I entered upon Abu Musa and he was performing the morning prayer. His wife went to cry or to complain about him, so Abu Musa asked her, "Didn't you hear what the Messenger of Allah ﷺ said?" She replied, "Yes," and remained silent. When Abu Musa died, Yazid said, "I met his wife and said to her the same words Abu Musa said to her: 'Didn't you hear what the Messenger of Allah ﷺ said?'" She replied, "Yes," and remained silent. The Messenger of Allah ﷺ said, "He is not one of us who shaves, plucks, or makes incisions."  

الطبراني:٢١٩٩١حَدَّثَنَا مُحَمَّدُ بْنُ عَبْدِ اللهِ الْحَضْرَمِيُّ ثنا عُثْمَانُ بْنُ أَبِي شَيْبَةَ ثنا جَرِيرٌ عَنْ مَنْصُورٍ عَنْ إِبْرَاهِيمَ عَنْ يَزِيدَ بْنِ أَوْسٍ قَالَ

دَخَلْتُ عَلَى أَبِي مُوسَى وَهُوَ تَقِيَّةٌ فَذَهَبَتِ امْرَأَتُهُ لَتَبْكِي أَوْ تَهُمُّ بِهِ فَقَالَ لَهَا أَبُو مُوسَى أَمَا سَمِعْتِ مَا قَالَ رَسُولُ اللهِ ﷺ؟ قَالَتْ بَلَى فَسَكَتَتْ فَلَمَّا مَاتَ أَبُو مُوسَى قَالَ يَزِيدُ لَقِيتُ امْرَأَتَهُ فَقُلْتُ لَهَا قَوْلَ أَبِي مُوسَى أَمَا سَمِعْتِ مَا قَالَ رَسُولُ اللهِ ﷺ ثُمَّ سَكَتَتْ قَالَتْ نَعَمْ قَالَ رَسُولُ اللهِ ﷺ «لَيْسَ مِنَّا مَنْ حَلَقَ أَوْ سَلَقَ أَوْ خَرَقَ»