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tirmidhi:1087Aḥmad b. Manīʿ > Ibn Abū Zāʾidah > ʿĀṣim b. Sulaymān > al-Aḥwal > Bakr b. ʿAbdullāh al-Muzanī > al-Mughīrah b. Shuʿbah > Khaṭab Āmraʾah

Al-Mughirah bin Shu'bah proposed to a woman, so the Prophet said: "Look at her, for indeed that is more likely to make things better between the two of you."  

الترمذي:١٠٨٧حَدَّثَنَا أَحْمَدُ بْنُ مَنِيعٍ حَدَّثَنَا ابْنُ أَبِي زَائِدَةَ قَالَ حَدَّثَنِي عَاصِمُ بْنُ سُلَيْمَانَ هُوَ الأَحْوَلُ عَنْ بَكْرِ بْنِ عَبْدِ اللَّهِ الْمُزَنِيِّ عَنِ الْمُغِيرَةِ بْنِ شُعْبَةَ أَنَّهُ خَطَبَ امْرَأَةً فَقَالَ

النَّبِيُّ ﷺ انْظُرْ إِلَيْهَا فَإِنَّهُ أَحْرَى أَنْ يُؤْدَمَ بَيْنَكُمَا وَفِي الْبَابِ عَنْ مُحَمَّدِ بْنِ مَسْلَمَةَ وَجَابِرٍ وَأَنَسٍ وَأَبِي حُمَيْدٍ وَأَبِي هُرَيْرَةَ  

قَالَ أَبُو عِيسَى هَذَا حَدِيثٌ حَسَنٌ وَقَدْ ذَهَبَ بَعْضُ أَهْلِ الْعِلْمِ إِلَى هَذَا الْحَدِيثِ وَقَالُوا لاَ بَأْسَ أَنْ يَنْظُرَ إِلَيْهَا مَا لَمْ يَرَ مِنْهَا مُحَرَّمًا وَهُوَ قَوْلُ أَحْمَدَ وَإِسْحَاقَ وَمَعْنَى قَوْلِهِ أَحْرَى أَنْ يُؤْدَمَ بَيْنَكُمَا قَالَ أَحْرَى أَنْ تَدُومَ الْمَوَدَّةُ بَيْنَكُمَا