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ذِكْرُ الْإِبَاحَةِ لِلْمَرْأَةِ أَنْ تَأْخُذَ مِنْ مَالِ زَوْجِهَا لِعِيَالِهِ بِالْمَعْرُوفِ مِنْ غَيْرِ عِلْمِهِ

ibnhibban:4256 – Muḥammad b. Aḥmad b. Sulaymān b. Abū Shaykh Abū Bakr Biwāsiṭ > ʿUbaydullāh b. Muḥammad b. ʿĀʾishah > Ḥammād b. Salamah > Hishām b. ʿUrwah from his father > ʿĀʾishah

[Machine] Hind came to the Messenger of Allah ﷺ and said, "Verily, Abu Sufyan is restraining me and my children. Can I take some of his wealth without him knowing?" He replied, "Take from his wealth what is reasonable, and he will not know."  

ابن حبّان:٤٢٥٦ – سَمِعْتُ مُحَمَّدَ بْنَ أَحْمَدَ بْنِ سُلَيْمَانَ بْنِ أَبِي شَيْخٍ أَبَا بَكْرٍ بِوَاسِطَ يَقُولُ سَمِعْتُ عُبَيْدَ اللَّهِ بْنَ مُحَمَّدِ بْنِ عَائِشَةَ يَقُولُ حَدَّثَنَا حَمَّادُ بْنُ سَلَمَةَ عَنْ هِشَامِ بْنِ عُرْوَةَ عَنْ أَبِيهِ عَنْ عَائِشَةَ قَالَتْ

جَاءَتْ هِنْدٌ إِلَى رَسُولِ اللَّهِ ﷺ فَقَالَتْ إِنَّ أَبَا سُفْيَانَ مُضَيِّقٌ عَلَيَّ وَعَلَى وَلَدِي أَفَآخُذُ مِنْ مَالِهِ وَهُوَ لَا يَشْعُرُ؟ قَالَ «خُذِي مِنْ مَالِهِ بِالْمَعْرُوفِ وَهُوَ لَا يَشْعُرُ»  

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Collected by Nasāʾī, Ibn Mājah
nasai:5420 – Isḥāq b. Ibrāhīm > Wakīʿ > Hishām b. ʿUrwah from his father > ʿĀʾishah

"Hind came to the Messenger of Allah [SAW] and said : 'O Messenger of Allah, Abu Sufyan is a stingy man who does not spend enough on my child and I. Can I take from his wealth without him realizing?' He said: 'Take what is sufficient for you and your child on a reasonable basis.'"  

النسائي:٥٤٢٠ – أَخْبَرَنَا إِسْحَاقُ بْنُ إِبْرَاهِيمَ قَالَ أَنْبَأَنَا وَكِيعٌ قَالَ حَدَّثَنَا هِشَامُ بْنُ عُرْوَةَ عَنْ أَبِيهِ عَنْ عَائِشَةَ قَالَتْ

جَاءَتْ هِنْدٌ إِلَى رَسُولِ اللَّهِ ﷺ فَقَالَتْ يَا رَسُولَ اللَّهِ إِنَّ أَبَا سُفْيَانَ رَجُلٌ شَحِيحٌ وَلاَ يُنْفِقُ عَلَىَّ وَوَلَدِي مَا يَكْفِينِي أَفَآخُذُ مِنْ مَالِهِ وَلاَ يَشْعُرُ قَالَ خُذِي مَا يَكْفِيكِ وَوَلَدَكِ بِالْمَعْرُوفِ  

ibnmajah:2293 – Abū Bakr b. Abū Shaybah And ʿAlī b. Muḥammad Waʾabū ʿUmar al-Ḍarīr > Wakīʿ > Hishām b. ʿUrwah from his father > ʿĀʾishah

'Hind came to the Prophet ﷺ and said: 'O Messenger of Allah, Abu Sufyan is a stingy man and he does not give me enough for me and my child, except for what I take from his wealth without him realizing.' He said: Take what is sufficient for you and your child, on a reasonable basis.' "  

ابن ماجة:٢٢٩٣ – حَدَّثَنَا أَبُو بَكْرِ بْنُ أَبِي شَيْبَةَ وَعَلِيُّ بْنُ مُحَمَّدٍ وَأَبُو عُمَرَ الضَّرِيرُ قَالُوا حَدَّثَنَا وَكِيعٌ حَدَّثَنَا هِشَامُ بْنُ عُرْوَةَ عَنْ أَبِيهِ عَنْ عَائِشَةَ قَالَتْ

جَاءَتْ هِنْدٌ إِلَى النَّبِيِّ ﷺ فَقَالَتْ يَا رَسُولَ اللَّهِ إِنَّ أَبَا سُفْيَانَ رَجُلٌ شَحِيحٌ وَلاَ يُعْطِينِي مَا يَكْفِينِي وَوَلَدِي إِلاَّ مَا أَخَذْتُ مِنْ مَالِهِ وَهُوَ لاَ يَعْلَمُ فَقَالَ خُذِي مَا يَكْفِيكِ وَوَلَدَكِ بِالْمَعْرُوفِ