[Machine] He said to her, "You are beautiful and you attract me, and he hides his intention. He should not reveal all of this to her. This is all permissible and known (customary), but do not make secret agreements with them." [Al-Baqarah 235] He said to her, "Do not precede me in making decisions for yourself, for I am your husband. This is not permissible."
هُوَ قَوْلُ الرَّجُلِ لِلْمَرْأَةِ فِي عِدَّتِهَا إِنَّكِ لَجَمِيلَةٌ وَإِنَّكِ لَتُعْجِبِينَنِي وَيُضْمِرُ خِطْبَتَهَا فَلَا يُبْدِيهِ لَهَا هَذَا كُلُّهُ حِلٌّ مَعْرُوفٌ {وَلَكِنْ لَا تُوَاعِدُوهُنَّ سِرًّا} [البقرة 235] قَالَ يَقُولُ لَهَا لَا تَسْبِقِينِي بِنَفْسِكِ فَإِنِّي نَاكِحُكِ هَذَا لَا يَحِلُّ