Marthad and the prohibition on marrying Anaq
[AI] There was a man called Marthad bin Abi Marthad, and he used to carry captives from Makkah until he brought them to Madinah. He said: In Makkah there was a prostitute called Anaq, and she had been his companion, and he had promised a man that he would carry him out from the captives of Makkah. He said: So I came until I reached the shade of a wall among the walls of Makkah on a moonlit night. He said: Then Anaq came and saw the dark outline of my shadow beside the wall. When she reached me, she recognized me and said, "Marthad?" I said, "Marthad." She said, "Would you like to spend the night with us tonight?" I said, "O Anaq, Allah has forbidden fornication." She said, "O people of the tents, this is the man who carries away your captives." So eight men followed me, and I took the path of al-Khandamah until I came to a cave, and I entered it. They came until they passed right over my head and urinated, and their urine fell on my head, but Allah blinded them until they went back. Then I returned to my companion and carried him, and he was a heavy man, until I reached al-Idhkhir. I removed his shackles, then I began carrying him, and he exhausted me, until I arrived in Madinah. Then I came to the Messenger of Allah ﷺ and said, "O Messenger of Allah, may I marry Anaq?" The Messenger of Allah ﷺ remained silent and did not answer me at all until this surah was revealed, which is His saying: "The fornicator does not marry except a fornicatress or an idolatress, and the fornicatress is not married except by a fornicator or an idolater, and that has been forbidden to the believers" [al-Nur 3]. Then the Messenger of Allah ﷺ said: "O Marthad, the fornicator does not marry except a fornicatress or an idolatress, and the fornicatress is not married except by a fornicator or an idolater."
كَانَ رَجُلٌ يُقَالُ لَهُ مَرْثَدُ بْنُ أَبِي مَرْثَدٍ، وَكَانَ رَجُلًا يَحْمِلُ الْأَسْرَى مِنْ مَكَّةَ حَتَّى يَأْتِيَ بِهِمُ الْمَدِينَةَ. قَالَ: وَكَانَ بِمَكَّةَ بَغِيٌّ يُقَالُ لَهَا عَنَاقٌ، وَكَانَتْ صَدِيقَتَهُ، وَأَنَّهُ وَعَدَ رَجُلًا يَحْمِلُهُ مِنْ أَسْرَى مَكَّةَ. قَالَ: فَجِئْتُ حَتَّى انْتَهَيْتُ إِلَى ظِلِّ حَائِطٍ مِنْ حَوَائِطِ مَكَّةَ فِي لَيْلَةٍ مُقْمِرَةٍ. قَالَ: فَجَاءَتْ عَنَاقٌ، فَأَبْصَرَتْ سَوَادَ ظِلِّي بِجَنْبِ الْحَائِطِ، فَلَمَّا انْتَهَتْ إِلَيَّ عَرَفَتْ، قَالَتْ: مَرْثَدٌ؟ قُلْتُ: مَرْثَدٌ. قَالَتْ: هَلْ لَكَ أَنْ تَبِيتَ عِنْدَنَا اللَّيْلَةَ؟ قُلْتُ: يَا عَنَاقُ، قَدْ حَرَّمَ اللهُ الزِّنَا. قَالَتْ: يَا أَهْلَ الْخِيَامِ، هَذَا الرَّجُلُ الَّذِي يَحْمِلُ أَسْرَاكُمْ. فَاتَّبِعْنِي ثَمَانِيَةٌ، وَسَلَكْتُ الْخَنْدَمَةَ، فَانْتَهَيْتُ إِلَى كَهْفٍ أَوْ غَارٍ فَدَخَلْتُهُ. فَجَاءُوا حَتَّى جَازُوا عَلَى رَأْسِي، فَبَالُوا، فَظَلَّ بَوْلُهُمْ عَلَى رَأْسِي، وَأَعْمَاهُمُ اللهُ حَتَّى رَجَعُوا. وَرَجَعْتُ إِلَى صَاحِبِي، وَحَمَلْتُهُ، وَكَانَ رَجُلًا ثَقِيلًا، حَتَّى انْتَهَيْتُ إِلَى الْإِذْخِرِ، فَفَكَكْتُ عَنْهُ كَبْلَهُ، فَجَعَلْتُ أَحْمِلُهُ وَيُعْيِينِي حَتَّى قَدِمْتُ الْمَدِينَةَ. فَأَتَيْتُ رَسُولَ اللهِ ﷺ، فَقُلْتُ: يَا رَسُولَ اللهِ، أَنْكِحُ عَنَاقًا؟ فَأَمْسَكَ رَسُولُ اللهِ ﷺ فَلَمْ يَرُدَّ عَلَيَّ شَيْئًا حَتَّى نَزَلَتْ هَذِهِ السُّورَةُ، وَهِيَ قَوْلُهُ تَعَالَى: ﴿الزَّانِي لَا يَنْكِحُ إِلَّا زَانِيَةً أَوْ مُشْرِكَةً وَالزَّانِيَةُ لَا يَنْكِحُهَا إِلَّا زَانٍ أَوْ مُشْرِكٌ وَحُرِّمَ ذَلِكَ عَلَى الْمُؤْمِنِينَ﴾ [النور 3]. فَقَالَ رَسُولُ اللهِ ﷺ: «يَا مَرْثَدُ، الزَّانِي لَا يَنْكِحُ إِلَّا زَانِيَةً أَوْ مُشْرِكَةً، وَالزَّانِيَةُ لَا يَنْكِحُهَا إِلَّا زَانٍ أَوْ مُشْرِكٌ».
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