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ahmad:24302Ibn Numayr > Hishām from his father > ʿĀʾishah

[Machine] It was said to her, "Indeed, Ibn Umar reports that the Prophet ﷺ said, 'Verily, the deceased is punished by the weeping of the living.'"She said, "And did Abu Abdur-Rahman not say, 'Verily, the family of the deceased weep over him, and indeed he is punished for his sins?'"  

أحمد:٢٤٣٠٢حَدَّثَنَا ابْنُ نُمَيْرٍ حَدَّثَنَا هِشَامٌ عَنْ أَبِيهِ عَنْ عَائِشَةَ قَالَتْ

قِيلَ لَهَا إِنَّ ابْنَ عُمَرَ يَرْفَعُ إِلَى النَّبِيِّ ﷺ إِنَّ الْمَيِّتَ يُعَذَّبُ بِبُكَاءِ الْحَيِّ قَالَتْ وَهِلَ أَبُوعَبْدِ الرَّحْمَنِ إِنَّمَا قَالَ إِنَّ أَهْلَ الْمَيِّتِ يَبْكُونَ عَلَيْهِ وَإِنَّهُ لَيُعَذَّبُ بِجُرْمِهِ