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ahmad:14896Aswad b. ʿĀmir > Abū Bakr > al-Aʿmash > Abū Sufyān > Jābir b. ʿAbdullāh

[Machine] "We were with the Prophet ﷺ in a military expedition. I asked for permission to leave quickly. He asked, 'Did you marry a virgin or a divorced woman?' I replied, 'A divorced woman.' He said, 'Then why didn't you marry a virgin so you could play with her and she could play with you?' I said, 'Go and do a wise deed.' Abu Bakr said, meaning, 'Don't disturb them at night.'"  

أحمد:١٤٨٩٦حَدَّثَنَا أَسْوَدُ بْنُ عَامِرٍ أَخْبَرَنَا أَبُو بَكْرٍ عَنِ الْأَعْمَشِ عَنْ أَبِي سُفْيَانَ عَنْ جَابِرِ بْنِ عَبْدِ اللهِ قَالَ

كُنَّا مَعَ النَّبِيِّ ﷺ فِي غَزَاةٍ قَالَفَاسْتَأْذَنْتُ أَتَعَجَّلُ قُلْتُ إِنِّي تَزَوَّجْتُ قَالَ ثَيِّبًا أَمْ بِكْرًا؟ قَالَ قُلْتُ ثَيِّبًا قَالَ فَأَلَّا كَانَتْ بِكْرًا تُلَاعِبُهَا وَتُلَاعِبُكَ؟ قَالَ انْطَلِقْ وَاعْمَلْ عَمَلًا كَيِّسًا قَالَ أَبُو بَكْرٍ يَعْنِي لَا تَطْرُقْهُنَّ لَيْلًا