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tabarani:7408al-ʿAbbās b. al-Faḍl al-Asfāṭī > ʿAmr b. ʿAwn al-Wāsiṭī > ʿAbd al-Ḥamīd b. Sulaymān > Rabīʿah b. Abū ʿAbd al-Raḥman > Ṣirmah al-ʿUdhrī > Ghazā Rasūl Allāh ﷺ Banī al-Muṣṭaliq

[Machine] The Messenger of Allah, ﷺ , raided the Banu Mustaliq and we obtained the spoils of the Arabs, so we desired to enjoy ourselves. But our hardship intensified, and we wanted to rest and isolate ourselves. Some of us said to each other, "What should we do about this?" The Messenger of Allah, ﷺ , came among us until we asked him. So, we asked him, and the Messenger of Allah, ﷺ , said, "Separate or don't separate, whatever Allah has ordained will always continue until the Day of Judgment."  

الطبراني:٧٤٠٨حَدَّثَنَا الْعَبَّاسُ بْنُ الْفَضْلِ الْأَسْفَاطِيُّ ثنا عَمْرُو بْنُ عَوْنٍ الْوَاسِطِيُّ ثنا عَبْدُ الْحَمِيدِ بْنُ سُلَيْمَانَ قَالَ سَمِعْتُ رَبِيعَةَ بْنَ أَبِي عَبْدِ الرَّحْمَنِ يُحَدِّثُ عَنْ صِرْمَةَ الْعُذْرِيِّ قَالَ

غَزَا رَسُولُ اللهِ ﷺ بَنِي الْمُصْطَلِقِ فَأَصَبْنَا كَرَائِمَ الْعَرَبِ فَأَرْغَبْنَا فِي التَّمَتُّعِ وَقَدِ اشْتَدَّتْ عَلَيْنَا الْعُزُوبَةُ فَأَرَدْنَا أَنْ نسْتَمْتِعَ وَنَعْزِلَ فَقَالَ بَعْضُنَا لِبَعْضٍ مَا يَنْبَغِي لَنَا أَنْ نصْنَعَ هَذَا وَرَسُولُ اللهِ ﷺ بَيْنَ أَظْهُرِنَا حَتَّى نَسْأَلَهُ فَسَأَلْنَاهُ فَقَالَ رَسُولُ اللهِ ﷺ «اعْزِلُوا أَوْ لَا تَعْزِلُوا مَا كَتَبَ اللهُ مِنْ نَسَمَةٍ هِي كَائِنَةٌ إِلَى يَوْمِ الْقِيَامَةِ إِلَّا وَهِي كَائِنَةٌ»  


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abudawud:2172al-Qaʿnabī > Mālik > Rabīʿah b. Abū ʿAbd al-Raḥman > Muḥammad b. Yaḥyá b. Ḥabbān > Ibn Muḥayrīz

Muhairiz said “I entered the mosque and saw Abu Sa’id Al Khudri . I sat with him and asked about withdrawing the penis (while having intercourse). Abu Sa’id said We went out with the Apostle of Allaah ﷺ on the expedition to Banu Al Mustaliq and took some Arab women captive and we desired the women for we were suffering from the absence of our wives and we wanted ransom, so we intended to withdraw the penis (while having intercourse with the slave women). But we asked ourselves “can we draw the penis when the Apostle of Allaah ﷺ is among us before asking him about it? So we asked him about it. He said “it does not matter if you do not do it, for very soul that is to be born up to the Day of Resurrection will be born.”  

أبو داود:٢١٧٢حَدَّثَنَا الْقَعْنَبِيُّ عَنْ مَالِكٍ عَنْ رَبِيعَةَ بْنِ أَبِي عَبْدِ الرَّحْمَنِ عَنْ مُحَمَّدِ بْنِ يَحْيَى بْنِ حَبَّانَ عَنِ ابْنِ مُحَيْرِيزٍ قَالَ

دَخَلْتُ الْمَسْجِدَ فَرَأَيْتُ أَبَا سَعِيدٍ الْخُدْرِيَّ فَجَلَسْتُ إِلَيْهِ فَسَأَلْتُهُ عَنِ الْعَزْلِ فَقَالَ أَبُو سَعِيدٍ خَرَجْنَا مَعَ رَسُولِ اللَّهِ ﷺ فِي غَزْوَةِ بَنِي الْمُصْطَلِقِ فَأَصَبْنَا سَبْيًا مِنْ سَبْىِ الْعَرَبِ فَاشْتَهَيْنَا النِّسَاءَ وَاشْتَدَّتْ عَلَيْنَا الْعُزْبَةُ وَأَحْبَبْنَا الْفِدَاءَ فَأَرَدْنَا أَنْ نَعْزِلَ ثُمَّ قُلْنَا نَعْزِلُ وَرَسُولُ اللَّهِ ﷺ بَيْنَ أَظْهُرِنَا قَبْلَ أَنْ نَسْأَلَهُ عَنْ ذَلِكَ فَسَأَلْنَاهُ عَنْ ذَلِكَ فَقَالَ مَا عَلَيْكُمْ أَنْ لاَ تَفْعَلُوا مَا مِنْ نَسَمَةٍ كَائِنَةٍ إِلَى يَوْمِ الْقِيَامَةِ إِلاَّ وَهِيَ كَائِنَةٌ  

malik:29-106Yaḥyá > Mālik > Rabīʿah b. Abū ʿAbd al-Raḥman > Muḥammad b. Yaḥyá b. Ḥabbān > Ibn Muḥayrīz

Yahya related to me from Malik from Rabia ibn Abi Abd ar-Rahman from Muhammad ibn Yahya ibn Habban that Ibn Muhayriz said, "I went into the mosque and saw Abu Said al-Khudri and so I sat by him and asked him about coitus interruptus. Abu Said al-Khudri said, 'We went out with the Messenger of Allah ﷺ on the expedition to the Banu al-Mustaliq. We took some Arabs prisoner, and we desired the women as celibacy was hard for us. We wanted the ransom, so we wanted to practise coitus interruptus. We said, 'Shall we practise coitus interruptus while the Messenger of Allah ﷺ is among us before we ask him?' We asked him about that and he said, 'You don't have to not do it. There is no self which is to come into existence up to the Day of Rising but that it will come into existence.' "  

مالك:٢٩-١٠٦حَدَّثَنِي يَحْيَى عَنْ مَالِكٍ عَنْ رَبِيعَةَ بْنِ أَبِي عَبْدِ الرَّحْمَنِ عَنْ مُحَمَّدِ بْنِ يَحْيَى بْنِ حَبَّانَ عَنِ ابْنِ مُحَيْرِيزٍ

أَنَّهُ قَالَ دَخَلْتُ الْمَسْجِدَ فَرَأَيْتُ أَبَا سَعِيدٍ الْخُدْرِيَّ فَجَلَسْتُ إِلَيْهِ فَسَأَلْتُهُ عَنِ الْعَزْلِ فَقَالَ أَبُو سَعِيدٍ الْخُدْرِيُّ خَرَجْنَا مَعَ رَسُولِ اللَّهِ ﷺ فِي غَزْوَةِ بَنِي الْمُصْطَلِقِ فَأَصَبْنَا سَبْيًا مِنْ سَبْىِ الْعَرَبِ فَاشْتَهَيْنَا النِّسَاءَ وَاشْتَدَّتْ عَلَيْنَا الْعُزْبَةُ وَأَحْبَبْنَا الْفِدَاءَ فَأَرَدْنَا أَنْ نَعْزِلَ فَقُلْنَا نَعْزِلُ وَرَسُولُ اللَّهِ ﷺ بَيْنَ أَظْهُرِنَا قَبْلَ أَنْ نَسْأَلَهُ فَسَأَلْنَاهُ عَنْ ذَلِكَ فَقَالَ مَا عَلَيْكُمْ أَنْ لاَ تَفْعَلُوا مَا مِنْ نَسَمَةٍ كَائِنَةٍ إِلَى يَوْمِ الْقِيَامَةِ إِلاَّ وَهِيَ كَائِنَةٌ