ذِكْرُ مَا يُسْتَحَبُّ لِلْمَرْءِ: رِعَايَةُ عِيَالِهِ بِذَبِّهِمْ عَنِ الْأَشْيَاءِ الَّتِي يُخَافُ عَلَيْهِمْ مُتَعَقَّبُهَا

[Machine] It is narrated that when the Prophet (pbuh) would go out for battle, his last interaction before leaving would be with Fatimah, and when he would return from battle, his first interaction would be with Fatimah. This happened when he went for the Tabuk expedition, and Ali was with him. Fatimah prepared a mat in her house and hung a curtain on her door. She also dyed her face veil with saffron. When her father (pbuh) returned and saw what she had done, he turned back and sat in the mosque. She then sent Bilal to him and told him to ask her father (pbuh) why he did not enter the house. Bilal went to him and asked, and the Prophet (pbuh) replied, "I saw that she changed something." Bilal informed her of the Prophet's (pbuh) reply, so she removed the curtain, took off the mat, threw away what was on her and put on her regular clothes. Bilal informed the Prophet (pbuh) of this, and he came to her, embraced her and said, "This is how you should be, my father and mother be sacrificed for you."  

أَنَّ النَّبِيَّ ﷺ كَانَ إِذَا خَرَجَ فِي غَزَاةٍ كَانَ آخِرُ عَهْدِهِ بِفَاطِمَةَ وَإِذَا قَدِمَ مِنْ غَزَاةٍ كَانَ أَوَّلُ عَهْدِهِ بِفَاطِمَةَ رِضْوَانُ اللَّهِ عَلَيْهَا فَإِنَّهُ خَرَجَ لِغَزْوِ تَبُوكَ وَمَعَهُ عَلِيٌّ رِضْوَانُ اللَّهِ عَلَيْهِ فَقَامَتْ فَاطِمَةُ فَبَسَطَتْ فِي بَيْتِهَا بِسَاطًا وَعَلَّقَتْ عَلَى بَابِهَا سِتْرًا وَصَبَغَتْ مِقْنَعَتَهَا بِزَعْفَرَانٍ فَلَمَّا قَدِمَ أَبُوهَا ﷺ وَرَأَى مَا أَحْدَثَتْ رَجَعَ فَجَلَسَ فِي الْمَسْجِدِ فَأَرْسَلَتْ إِلَى بِلَالٍ فَقَالَتْ يَا بِلَالُ اذْهَبْ إِلَى أَبِي فَسَلْهُ مَا يَرُدُّهُ عَنْ بَابِي؟ فَأَتَاهُ فَسَأَلَهُ فَقَالَ ﷺ «إِنِّي رَأَيْتُهَا أَحْدَثَتْ ثَمَّ شَيْئًا» فَأَخْبَرَهَا فَهَتَكَتِ السِّتْرَ وَرَفَعَتِ الْبِسَاطَ وَأَلْقَتْ مَا عَلَيْهَا وَلَبِسَتْ أَطْمَارَهَا فَأَتَاهُ بِلَالٌ فَأَخْبَرَهُ فَأَتَاهُ فَاعْتَنَقَهَا وَقَالَ «هَكَذَا كُونِي فِدَاكِ أَبِي وَأُمِّي»