[Machine] The Messenger of Allah ﷺ said, "What do you consider to be arrogance among you?" They said, "It is the one who does not have children." He said, "That is not arrogance, but rather it is the man who does not give anything to his children." He said, "Then what do you consider stubbornness among you?" They said, "It is the one who cannot be conquered by men." He said, "No, that is not it, but rather it is the one who controls himself when he is angry." This is the narration of Jarir. And in the narration of Abu Mu'awiyah, there is mention of precedence and delay. He said, firstly, "What do you consider stubbornness among you?" They said, "It is the one who cannot be conquered by men." He said, "No, but stubbornness is the one who controls himself when he is angry." And the Messenger of Allah ﷺ also said, "What do you consider arrogance among you?" They said, "Arrogance is the one who does not have children." He said, "No, but arrogance is the one who does not give anything to his children."  

قَالَ رَسُولُ اللهِ ﷺ مَا تَعُدُّونَ الرَّقُوبُ فِيكُمْ قَالُوا هُوَ الَّذِي لَا يُولَدُ لَهُ قَالَ لَيْسَ ذَاكَ بِالرَّقُوبِ وَلَكِنَّهُ الرَّجُلُ الَّذِي لَمْ يُقَدِّمْ مِنْ وَلَدِهِ شَيْئًا قَالَ فَمَا تَعُدُّونَ الصُّرَعَةَ فِيكُمْ؟ قَالُوا الَّذِي لَا تَصْرَعُهُ الرِّجَالُ قَالَ لَيْسَ بِذَاكَ وَلَكِنَّهُ الَّذِي يَمْلِكُ نَفْسَهُ عِنْدَ الْغَضَبِ لَفْظُ حَدِيثِ جَرِيرٍ وَفِي حَدِيثِ أَبِي مُعَاوِيَةَ تَقْدِيمٌ وَتَأْخِيرٌ قَالَ أَوَّلًا مَا تَعُدُّونَ فِيكُمُ الصُّرَعَةَ قَالُوا الَّذِي لَا تَصْرَعُهُ الرِّجَالُ قَالَ لَا وَلَكِنَّ الصُّرَعَةَ الَّذِي يَمْلِكُ نَفْسَهُ عِنْدَ الْغَضَبِ قَالَ وَقَالَ رَسُولُ اللهِ ﷺ مَا تَعُدُّونَ فِيكُمُ الرَّقُوبَ؟ قَالَ قُلْنَا الرَّقُوبُ الَّذِي لَا يُولَدُ لَهُ قَالَ لَا وَلَكِنَّ الرَّقُوبَ الَّذِي لَمْ يُقَّدِمْ مِنْ وَلَدِهِ شَيْئًا